In my opinion, actual local stimulation is much more necessary to women if the are to experience orgasm.
Unless the man is tired or lacking in virility, it will not usually be necessary for the woman to apply penile stimulation, save perhaps as an added sensation which will help to ensure variety. But it is really essential in my opinion again that the man should apply genital stimulation, at any rate until the woman has become erotically experienced.
For the overwhelming majority of women the most sensitive part in the early stages of sexual embrace is the clitoris. Many may not realize this, far less act upon it, with the result that most not merely many women are rarely fully prepared for actual sex. Plenty women never experience genuine, full, culmination in the whole course of sexual experience with their boyfriends or in fact their husbands.
Naturally, with an inexperienced 👰 bride or woman, special care is necessary, when other forms of love-play having aroused a measure of feeling, the husband or man turns his attention to local stimulation.
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VAN DE VELDE said, "in any erotic play executed with delicate reverence and consideration, and above all, when the lovers have not become accustomed and attuned to each other, a considerable amount of time should be given to kisses and manual caresses, before the genitals are touched. After gentle stroking and clasping of the necessary organs, the hand should lightly and timidly brush the abdomen, the mon-pubis, the inner side of the thighs, alight swiftly on the sexual organs and pass at once to the other thigh. Only by a cautious and circuitous route should it approach the Holy place of sex and tenderly seek admittance "
It should be known that if the stroking and seeking is the husbands, the wives thigh may separate slightly at the husbands touch, so that her genital organs become more accessible. The excitement caused by the previous caresses will probably have caused a certain degree of lubrication and an increased blood supply.
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