PREGNANCY IS NOT THE END OF SEXUAL INTERCOURSE
There are many who believe that pregnancy marks the end of sexual intercourse....well that's NOT entirely true. Sexual intercourse can go on even in from first trimester to the third trimester and almost all the sexual positions can still be used.
The few exceptions are when the woman in question previously experienced miscarriage and the other is that having sex at the latter stage of the pregnancy can cause the cervix to dilate.
It's time to drop all the myth and misconceptions about having sex pregnant.
Sex is known to release endorphins and oxytocin—otherwise known as the ‘love hormone’ allowing for relaxation and a sense of wellbeing.
During pregnancy, the body’s levels of estrogen and progesterone rise, increasing blood flow to the pelvic region, which in turn ups vaginal lubrication and sensitivity to the breasts. Naturally the body is prepared and ready as well as screaming for sex. However, the decision to have sex when pregnant MUST be the decision of the one carrying the pregnancy. It should NEVER be done against her will or consent.
In general, you should avoid positions that have you on your back late in the second trimester and during the third. Also, anal sex is generally a no-no throughout your pregnancy. Here are some few positions suitable for sex when pregnant.
MISSIONARY POSITION
If you try missionary position after the first trimester, wedge a pillow under you so you're tilted, not flat on your back and make sure your partner supports himself so his weight isn't on your belly.
COWGIRL POSITION
This position can work throughout your pregnancy. Straddle your partner as he lies on his back. That way, there'll be no weight on your abdomen and you can control the depth of penetration.
SPOONING
Lie with your partner facing your back and entering from behind. Keep some pillows handy for extra support as your pregnancy progresses.
Penetration tends to be shallower in this position. That's a good thing, because deep thrusts can become uncomfortable in later months.
DOGGY STYLE
Ohhhh YES....DOGGY!!!Support yourself on your knees and elbows as your partner kneels and enters from behind. A pillow can provide needed tummy support.
V-SPOONING
You each lie on your side, your bodies creating a V-shape. Wedge a pillow under your back for support as you face your partner, and rest both legs over his hip. This position allows him to keep most of his weight off your belly.
CHAIRMAN POSITION
Straddle your partner as he sits on a sturdy chair (Make sure the chair can take both weights) Position the chair near a wall or another piece of furniture to lean on when you're ready to get up from this position.
EDGE OF A BED
Shift your bottom to the side or foot of the bed and lie back with your knees bent. (After the first trimester, wedge a pillow under one side so you're not completely flat on your back.)
Depending on the height of the bed, your partner can kneel or stand.
NB: Sexual intercourse during pregnancy apart from increasing love among the couple or partners, the baby or babies get the feeling of love. When a pregnant woman is happy it makes the baby too happy.
