There is a lot of talk about anal sex, porn sites are full of it, and studies show that it is becoming more common. But until now the researchers have seen them black to know the real anal experiences of women. There was very little information about it.
But a Croatian team thought it was time to change this. They found about 1,900 women between 18 and 60 years old willing to share information about their sex lives. Each one answered an online survey with detailed information about "anal sex or penis in the anus". A smaller group that usually had anal sex also described their experiences with pleasure and pain.
Almost 80% of them had anal sex at least once, however, the team noted that this number is higher than that of the general population.
PAIN, THEN PLEASURE
And it hurt? You are right. The first time it hurt the majority, and 40% left because of pain or discomfort. For some, it was enough once, and they never did it again. But close to 70% gave him another chance and they kept doing it. And they said that ultimately, it improves over time. As they explained in the survey, the pain becomes less intense and lasts less. Still, just over 70% of those who had anal sex regularly said they felt some degree of pain or discomfort. So why the hell do not you tell your partner to better put your penis somewhere else?
The thing is that they felt something more than pain. They also felt pleasure. More than half of them who continued anal sex said it was very exciting and pleasurable, and that it increased over time.
DOMINATION AND INTIMACY
ACCORDING TO THE TEAM, WOMEN WHO COULD HAVE ORGASMS DURING VAGINAL PENETRATION, AS WELL AS THE MASTURBABINED REGULARLY WERE MORE PROCLIVE TO ENJOY THE ANAL SEX.
And what do they love about anal sex to those who come for him? The team looked for answers in the group of women who described their experiences.
For some, the pain itself during anal sex was part of the pleasure. Others linked pleasure with feeling dominated, which excited them, and some said it had to do with trust in their partner and intimacy that made them feel good.
On the other hand, some had very little or no pain - or stopped when it hurt. For them, the pain had nothing to do with the pleasure they felt during anal sex.
YOU WANT TO TRY?
So if you and your partner are starting in anal sex - or want to try it - these experiences can serve you. To minimize pain, anal and lubricant or saliva play is important. Several women said that being very excited was the key to not feeling discomfort. Others said that the most important thing was to do it calmly and gradually.
According to those who continued with anal sex, although at the beginning it could be painful, it tends to disappear with time. It is essential to feel comfortable and relaxed with your partner, communicate and learn which positions work.
