I think it's far more complex than just societal expectations. For just ONE example, I don't know many women who haven't been sexually abused in some way at a young age. Maybe it's just the type of women I meet or that they feel comfortable talking to me about it... but that type of thing fucks you up solidly, therapy or no in ways that you couldn't possibly understand.

As for me, I very much enjoy my sexuality. I wish that men hadn't always felt entitled to get (or take) sex from me when I was younger just because I went out wit them.

So... yeah, there are a LOT of aspects to sexuality, expressing your sexuality and so on, from both sides. Then you add in cultures, life experiences, the way people are raised and it is just far more complex than "Express yourself"

It's a good conversation to have, but this feels really dismissive when approached this way.