Okay, before you go mentally and virtually trolling and chastising me for the title of this post alone, take a minute to consider what I have to say and understand the achievement of click bait.
Now that I have your undulating, undivided, UNBIASED and OPEN MINDED attention. Listen to me when I start by saying: I am a man. And a man has needs. These statements go without saying, yet nowadays it appears that men are immediately depicted as pigs and are chastised for even showing the slightest inkling of sexual desire. So go on to explain just WHY I feel like this is so unfair!!! 😡😤😩
1️⃣. Reproduction is in our genetic code!!!
It is as simple as that!! Without this underlying inkling to reproduce, we would be completely disadvantaged for survival as a species!! The fact that we have so many sexually charged individuals is a testament to our overall resilience and incredible animal prowess!!
2️⃣.
Westernized culture is so sexualized it's fattening!!
Everywhere and anywhere you turn in modern society is fluxed with porn!!! Yes!! PORN!!!! Why the heck is this!!? Because porn sells! K.I.S.S. it!!! (Keep It Simple Stupid) I could write several other posts about as to why people are so appealed by sexual conduct...it's the reason why you're reading this post right now!!!! For about as long as we can all remember, we were at least curious about the opposite sex and interested in their similarities, and dissimilarities. When we see someone from the opposite, or the same sex, and recognize that they are labeled whether by a promoter or self labeled as attractive, then we want to know just what makes these individuals do appealing. Maybe it's their expression, maybe it's their background, again it's our curiosity which drives us here!
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Women are just as, if not often times more concerned with sexualization and the art of attracting a mate.
Generally speaking, women have been naturally programmed to attract a mate!! Again it goes back to our genetic codes and the need and desire to keep our species trucking along. There's just a key difference between the two of us, women scientifically have a shorter time to fulfill their programming. Modern foods, additives, and chemicals do nothing but shorten and deteriorate any of a woman's eggs that are routinely expelled every month, as they kill her personal supply from within. This means women are especially pressured to commit acts of adultery even more than men are. As men our sperm could even continue functioning into our late 70s if we make it that long. My father had me at 57! So why do men seem so much more sexually charged than women? Because we have greater amounts of testosterone!! Which brings me to number 4...
4️⃣.
We have higher amounts of...TESTOSTERONE!!! 👊🏽💪🏽
Again, K.I.S.S. it!!! Don't rack your brain trying to adorn a bunch of theories onto Maslow's pyramid of hierarchy! We just have higher levels of testosterone! It's science!!! And while women may feel their own deal of psychological and societal pressure, nothing is going to quite compare to the unyielding feeling and desire to reproduce. Those neurotransmitters running amok in our brains can be very convincing AND addicting!! Those dopamine neurotransmitters known as dopamine and serotonin, which are the "feel good" neurotransmitters create an amazing reward system for us, and gets us a little high and feeling good every time we fall prey and stimulate its triggered release. And testosterone is the strongest of them all! It creates adrenaline, and when we are chalked full of that, our primitive archaic instincts burst into fruition at a dramatic rate!!!
And finally number 5️⃣.
Sex is not only everywhere! But it's presence is socially acceptable in Western society!
Now here's an interesting conflict. Sexualization is everywhere from tv advertisements, to video games, to magazines to billboards, and most people don't care and are okay with it!!! So why the heckkk do people care so much when a man reacts off of what he is being programmed to do!! They say, ohhh he is so vulgar, crude, a pig, not a gentleman, etc!! But based upon what we see amongst our civilizations on a day to day routine, everyone is okay with it!! Yet guys get badgered ruthlessly if he even so much as glances at a woman's exposed bosoms!!
Look, I'm not here to bring the hammer down on girls at all, I love and respect women, and think they are men's equals in every right. But I'm just here to say, cut us some slack!!! We are doing our absolute best jobs to remain respectful, humble, and courteous to our female counterparts. I see guys everyday that just seem so shy and intimidated to even approach amor converse with women with even normal daily exchanges. And it's because they don't want to be looked at as creeps! Yes there are many out there, but of course there are also a bunch of great, sometimes shy, like even myself personally, but respectful guys out there who are doing their best to keep their sexual thoughts to a minimum. So next time you see a guy being a "creep" don't excuse, but don't judge his entire gender for it. Please, the respectful, "partially shy" gentleman out there will thank you graciously. 🙏🏽😉
How have you guys (and girls) been affected by this constant stereotype that men are pigs? For guys has it made you feel a little unsure about approaching a girl because you might be chastised rather respected for your natural desires? And for women, do you think that the rate at which these piggish men is exaggerated slightly? Give me your opinion in the comments! I'd love to discuss it!!
As always, thank you for your time and patience as I learn and grow as a humble minnow. I make one solemn promise, and that is to improve my content with everyday of posting. I hope you enjoyed my post, and that you have a wonderful day! And again, if we can find level ground for all parties, then we'll just be one step closer to reaching understanding between one another, and more important, peace, harmony, and joyous celebration!
