The number one need of a male is sex. Ladies if you have a diary write it down twice. You really need to know that. Please don't get me wrong i didn't say the number one need of a man because a man is spirit so a man needs God. But the number one need of a male is sex inter-alia( amongs other things).
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Why?
This is because the male was designed by God to be a pro-generator that means the male is always full of seed. His purpose in life is to provide seed. That is why every male right now is carrying more than 500 million sperm in his loins right now. A male is a seed carrier. So his number one purpose in life is to provide the genes for the generations. A male is designed by God to produce generations. That is why when God wanted to create a nation he never went to a woman, he went to a man because a man carries the generations. He said Abraham a nation shall come from you and serah will incubate the nation. So a man doesn't want sex he needs sex. And a need is something that helps you to function. Just like a car needs petroleum or gasoline to function so does a man need sex.
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A need is different from a want. Men do not want sex they need it.
Now because a man's number one need is sex, because he is driven by divine purpose to produce seed that is why men don't have menstration circle. Due to this, he is always ready; all the time, everyday , all day, anytime, anywhere. He is ready and he doesn't need to build up to sex. He is just ready even when his wife isn't ready. That creates a problem. Most women who are married, especially those religious women. Some them think their husband has a demon. They say : what is wrong with you man ; you had it last night, this morning again? Yesterday you had it and a day before. You are sick man and am going to pray for you and also take you to pastor Sam for him to cast out this nymphomaniac demon.
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And so she takes her husband down to pastor Sam and say pastor, my husband has a demon. He is a nymphomaniac. He wont take his hands off me please you need to pray for him to cast the demon out and pastor Sam says: i have the same demon.
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That is not a demon and Your husband is not sick, he is normal. And if anyone claiming to be too spiritual. If you don't have the same desire then you need prayer.
Now why is a woman's need not sex?
She likes it because sex is good for a woman and she also enjoys it. But it is not her motivational need. That's why paul said to the ladies your body is not your own. Because sometimes she doesn't feel like it but the man always feels like it.
Women have Four Seasons
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- Summer
- Winter
- Autumn and
- Spring
So men have to be sensitive.
When it is winter: leave her alone, buy her flowers, kiss and hug her but don't touch her. That is winter. You are out in the cold man so control your self.
Then the next is Autumn: this is when things begin to change and you begin to warm up a little bit but you are still not interested yet.
Then spring comes this is a time when everything is coming back to life.
Then Summer comes and it is so hot! That She grabs you in the bed and she says common here baby.
And later winter comes again and you are out in the cold again. So men we need to be sensitive. Because even though you are always ready she is not.
Like i said before and i would say again: A good marriage is built on a man who understands sensitivity and a woman who understands the need of a man.
Like i said before ladies: A man doesn't want sex that is why paul said don't be too spiritual ladies while talking about going on missions. You say am going to pray and fast for three weeks. The bible doesn't teach that! it says don't you go and fast and pray unless you first of all ask your husband not even God. So you don't tell your husband God told you to fast and pray No that's wrong. Instead you tell God your husband said you could fast and pray(that's what the scriptures teaches). And after you finish fasting, i mean after he allows you to go fast and pray; it says hurry back to bed because sister cynthia in the church will provide what he needs if you fail to.
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So while you are having mission, someone is on a mission with your husband.
This particular need of a man is very important ladies don't ever forget this.
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