Did this sentence confuse you?
It might. Is there something like equality in sex?. Are partners ever equal? And are we genettically programmed for inequality, also during sex?
A person once told me that sex is about power. And I struggle with this idea. I don't want to believe it.
I truly believe that sex is about pleasuring each other, and therefore giving and receiving. Yes yes, there are people that like being overpowered, playing games, fifty shades of gray or the opposite, but I truly believe that the average person would enjoys a sexual relationship the most that is more equal than imbalanced. Even though we know that there is inequality in sexual relationships whith one party not enjoying ( usually herself). I think it isn’t because the overpowering person wants to overpower, they actual want the other party to enjoy sex, forcing to enjoy it, and you could see it as incompetence, as pleasuring the other would be much more enjoyable, if you get where I am going.
Anyway
I wish you pleasurable sex in 2019