He gently pushed her beautiful little button with his warm and wet tongue. Moving it up and down, up and down in sync with her sounds of pleasure, he was leading her straight to her orgasmic paradise...
Pleasing a woman is not an easy task. I can say that from all the task that we men are meant to complete this is the hardest one. Even if you know one or two tricks that are your "secret weapon", it will give you nothing as soon as routine and daily life gets to your bedroom. Women's bodies are just like map, warm, gentle sweet maps of pleasure and you have to be willing to discover new, untouched areas, piece by piece, bite by bite, just like some Indiana Jones of sex. Today, I will give some places to visit in order not to screw up in bed. Also, I will give you a tip to you my ladies what to do if we actually do screw up in bed.
1. Ears
There is a pretty good explanation on why whispering quietly in one's ear is considered to be romantic or even arousing. On her earlobes, there are thousands of tiny little hairs which are very sensitive to any kind of touch, lick, even your gentle warm breath. Caring deeply about this area (along with the next one that I am going to mention in a moment) can be huge part of your foreplay and really good move to turn her on.
2. Neck
Playing with her neck is undoubtedly beneficial. Stimulating her vagus nerve and combining it with teasing her earlobes can really open her on you. In addition, if you include subtle but intense neck massage, you will easily find your way to make her feel comfortable with your touch. This is the basic step if you want to move forward at all.
3. Inner Thighs
The reason this area is so important is that it is located very close to the vagina and the clit. You can use that fact to your advantage teasing this zone, rubbing and kissing it. As you get better over time, you can even bite to get things a little bit more spicy. But remember... everything you do, you have to do with utmost care and passion. Listen to her reaction and respond to them accordingly. If you do it right, you can be sure you'll burn her up.
4. Navel
Here is something you MAY NOT KNOW... both, the clitoris and the navel have actually grown from the same tissue. Because of that they share many similarities and they linked to each other in neurological way. That being said, I think you all might guess why it is worth to stop there for a while.
5. Lower Back
Remember that moment when you were dancing, you touched her back, you were so close, alone, tied in a moment with a passion in the air... Well, the small of her back is directly link to her sensitive areas via nerves. Teasing these zones, all together with her hips and inner thighs can really benefit you both preparing her for incoming pleasure.
6. Feet
Nothing is better than good foot massage after long hard day at work. Have you ever wondered why it is so effective? Feet a very arousing role in both, men and women bodies. They are very sensitive to touch with the arch in particular. What is important is that when you take care of your partner's feet, you have to be sensual but also firm in touch. You do not want to end up tickling her. You want her to feel your warm and strong hand. This is one of a few areas where you can put a little bit of strength, just A LITTLE BIT.
7. Clitoris
An obvious call I guess. Women's clitoris has over 8000 nerve fibres which make it over two times more sensitive than head of a penis. Every single man who consider himself experienced in sex has to know a proper way to treat that little jewel. Personally, I spent years learning about it and perfecting my techniques, but believe me - it is worth the effort. There is no more addicting to women than feeling of an orgasmic pleasure running through her entire body.
DEAR LADIES!! If your partner is a pussy and don't want to fuck you like a true man DO NOT BE ASHAMED TO ENCOURAGE him. Don't be afraid to direct him, don't be afraid to put his hand right there where you want it to be. We are simple and we need simple signs. I'm planning a whole article on it so stay tuned!!
