Anorgasmia is characterized by recurrent difficulty and even the impossibility of women reach orgasm, even followed by sexual stimulation and excitement.
The factors for this to happen are varied and range from emotional blocks, some diseases and medications, but it is important to know that regardless of what originated, anorgasmia can (and should) be treated with the help of sex therapy (and yes, you can do alone), change of some kind of medication that is interfering, among others. It is also important to note that regardless of the importance that society (and many couples) always has an orgasm through vaginal intercourse and penile overvaluation and penetration, most sex therapists think healthy and values of orgasm through other routes, that is, the touch partner or oral sex. Without further ado ... get to know more about this dysfunction.
Types of anorgasmia
The most common of all is the primary and refers to women who have never had an orgasm in sex or even when masturbating relationship. The secondary anorgasmia focuses on women who have already had an orgasm, but for any situation no longer able or have a hard time have. Examples characteristic is the birth of a child contracting an STD (Sexually Transmitted Diseases), find some partner's infidelity, among others.
The coital type relates to women who reach orgasm with a partner (eg, oral sex), but in vaginal intercourse it does not.
The situational, as shown, varies according to the circumstances, i.e., the woman has an orgasm in specific situations, but that would at some times. An example is masturbation and with a lover, but the same does not happen with the official partner.
Causes
No doubt the emotional blocks are those who have more weight in the matter. is still nowadays not so sharp, what is certain is that education has always been a bit repressive for women. Masturbation often can is still taboo and there arise the difficulties of dealing with his own body and therefore the partner; some self-esteem issues that leave the woman uncomfortable during intercourse by preventing the full satisfaction of the moment; fears of surrendering completely and / or losing control; difficulty concentrating in sexual intercourse; various fears: smell, physiological needs, pregnancy, etc ...; traumatic past experiences; sexual violence; among others. Chemicals are other causes that can compromise irrigation or vascularization of the genital region. The use of such blocker drugs (drugs for hypertension, for example), benzodiazepines (anxiolytics, sedatives, etc ...), excess alcohol and drugs can affect considerably. The disease can also be responsible for anorgasmia. On spinal cord trauma, radiation of the pelvis (basin) female, genital lesions System by accident or multiple sclerosis, alcoholism, diabetes, among others.
Consequences
Over time it is inevitable that problems begin to arise from emotional disorders and trigger a series of events. Starts in that a decrease in self-esteem and happiness and hence a decrease in sexual desire, since there is no longer any kind of arousal and lubrication. Because of the sense of helplessness to escape the sexual relationship becomes evident. This tends to deteriorate the relationship, if there is not a conversation with your partner. This may be thinking that you are being unfaithful, who doubts the relationship and end up being affected. These issues must be fought! Seek professional help in order to expose your perception of the problem and talk to your partner, so that even the support, help and encourage treatment.