When a spinal cord injury occurs, it tends to be thought that an alteration in the sexual response is generated, this happens in many cases but it must be borne in mind that there are many other cases in which the erection, the penetration and even the orgasm are possible, depends on the type of injury you have. Having this clear, now I want to talk about people who completely lose mobility from the waist down. In these cases, you have to completely forget about sexuality? The answer is no, because you do not have to confuse sexuality with sexual relations, maybe you will not be able to get into intercourse but that does not mean you have lost your desire to perform sexual games.
Sexuality is a need that is born fundamentally in the head, therefore, staying paraplegic or quadriplegic does not mean that we must forget about sex, the important thing is that the person live sex based on their desires and not find in their physical limitation an impediment to enjoy them. What happens is that the erogenous zones, in which one feels pleasure, become one or several of those that the person still has sensitivity, for example, the ears, the chest, areas that are as sensitive as the genital itself in many cases. Also, sexual games and toys and, above all, the mind and imagination can be very helpful.
Therefore, sexuality is certainly possible but it is important to develop it without fear, something that not everyone who has an injury is willing. And, sex is a taboo subject in society, and it is even more so in people with disabilities. Therefore, there are people with disabilities who do not talk about it out of embarrassment and decide to give up their sexuality. The person with spinal cord injury has to learn that his body belongs to him, that he is the protagonist of his own life and he must feel that his erotic life is his and that he can live his sexuality as much as he wants. At the beginning you can have many doubts but do not forget that the body is wise, it's just a matter of daring, trying, taking it easy and sure that satisfaction will come.