Three important results related to the sexual life paths of each couple, which have been found in recent studies based on objective principles, practical tests and scientific statistics, will be summarized in this article, which is the fifth part of the series "Research Articles", through the follow-up by some researchers specializing in sex and emotional relations Between men and women.
The three outcomes of this research, which will come later at the end of this research, fall into three areas ... The first concerns the comparison of the sexual life of a couple with other sexual relations of another couple. Enjoyment, happiness and satisfaction between the number of times of sex during a period of any "rate of sex", the third area was on the expansion of the concept of sex and the importance of being considered more than just physical encounter between a man and a woman.
Dr. Amy Myos, a specialist in sex and emotional relationships, says people ask her many questions when they know, "I'm studying sex," and one of the most common questions people have about the "typical" number of sex couples This question comes from men and women who want to know that the number of times they had sex during a period is consistent with the normal number of sex for any couple who do not suffer any psychological, sexual or neurological problems.
Dr. Meeus, a sociologist at the University of Toronto who studies sex and emotional relationships and is interested in the concept of motivation, desire and sexual health in relationships, has written her research on the impact of media, including social networks such as Facebook on relationships. Articles on these topics and the latest
Article "Entries and Exit Rate of Sex" in which many facts related to this subject.
The study found that the rate of practice among couples is seven times a month, but this rate varies according to the age of married couples on the one hand and the duration of the marital relationship between them on the one hand Others, as well as other circumstances surrounding the lives of the spouses of a third party.
Another study, according to Myos, of 16,000 Americans over the age of 40 found that sex was 2-3 times a month, but those younger than 40 had sex more often than once a week. Regardless of age, couples also tend to have sex more often in their early marriage, with 45 percent of couples having sex three times a week, and that number declines later in life.
From the point of view of the logical and realistic analysis of all the psychological conditions associated with the sexual situation of an individual, we find that people have good reasons to worry about the rate of sex in their relationships, because the increase or decrease from the normal rate reveal a defect, and lead to results that affect the nature of the relationship between spouses , And some studies have indicated that increasing the rate of sex between spouses prevents the confrontation of the negative consequences of stress, in addition to that both women and men will feel satisfaction and a good level of happiness for their relationship, when they have sex in a large and satisfactory to the parties and not just increase the number The practice of non-genuine desire for such an increase.
A summary of the results of these research and studies on the subject of the rate of sex lies in three points:
First Result:
The comparison of the sexual life of a relationship with another sexual relationship is incorrect and will not lead to satisfactory results sought by the couple.
"The question of how best to have sex between a couple is a simple one, but the answer is not simple," says Dr. Harry Fash, author of "The Importance of Size ... Facts About Sex in a Man You Should Know." There is no way I can tell you about the number needed, because it depends on several factors, including age and health as well as other factors. In the above-mentioned book, Fash notes that the rate of sex under age 30 is twice a week but between the age of 50 And 59 times once a week. "Some married people rejoice at a higher rate and some relax for fewer," he said. "But it's not important how many times you have sex, but it's important to be comfortable with that number."
Second Result:
If the couple are satisfied and how satisfied they are with the number of times they practice sex, it is not important how many.
The famous psychologist Dr. Phil talks about the need for a satisfactory agreement between men and women on the number of times they have sex. So the answer to the question of how often couples have sex varies from one marital relationship to another and comparing other relationships is not useful but harmful. If you are happy and satisfied with the number of times you practice sex, it is not important to compare them to other relationships even if those relationships have more sexual contact.
Third Result:
Sex between men and women is not only sexual intercourse or intercourse, but there are many activities between men and women can be considered as sex, kisses, cuddles, caressing and so on ... So the traditional view was far from this vision where there was a problem, The rate of sex in terms of its view of the latter as sexual intercourse only, but the fact that there are many other activities that occur between men and women enter under the concept of any sex, and are considered a good practice of sex and thus affect positively and positively on the relationship between them, The definition of sex may be light N a way to expand the sexual practices of men and women and can create new opportunities for sexual pleasure.
But there are some reports and important research indicated that the courtship, tenderness, kisses, embraces and holding hands is a more important indicator and evidence of deep love for both men and women in the relationship of long-term emotional and more effective and affected by the mere sexual intercourse between them.
