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One of the challenges that some people face in relationships, is the nagging demand for sex by their partner! This is especially true for Christian ladies, who desire to honour God by living a chaste life, but are faced with this ugly situation - especially when they truly love the man.
They don't want to lose the relationship, but at the same time, they don't want to offend God! So, they find themselves seemingly stuck in the rut!
But how do you prevent or properly handle such situations?
First, it is caused by THREE major factors:
Being in a relationship with the WRONG person.
Lack of CLEAR DEFINITIONS and ESTABLISHMENT of key VALUES.
General sexual temptations.
Lets look briefly at each of these, and how to handle it properly.
- Being in a relationship with the WRONG person.
This is where the whole problem starts! You can't enter into a relationship with the wrong person and yet complain that you are experiencing the wrong things! You can only experience the right things when you are in a relationship with the right person!
So, how can you know if he or she is the wrong person?
Simply ask yourself these questions and answer it honestly:
"Is he or she born again? Does he or she believe in chastity, or don't even give a damn abt it? (That means they don't even care whether God frowns at immorality or not, but are only after their own selfish cravings). Does the person hv the fear of God? Does he or she believe in and uphold Christian values, or just living a care-free life?"
IF the ANSWER to ANY of these questions is "NO", then such individual is the WRONG person! Do NOT enter into a relationship with them! Just by using these test to sift the wrong person out of your life, you would have solved over 90% of the problem!!
By ensuring the wrong person doesn't come into your life, you can now breath in fresh air, and ready to enter into a meaningful, healthy relationship with the right person.
Ok. Now, lets move on to the NEXT POINT.... Pls do read the NEXT write-up I'm going to post on my timeline, for the CONTINUATION....
But pls remember this, until you shut the door of your life against the WRONG person, the RIGHT person may never come knocking!!! With the wrong person out, the problem is already 90% solved!
GOD BLESS YOU.