So... hmm. I don't know how to say this, or where to start, or if I should start...but let's just say that this article is not universally applicable. It is possible to for the sex-switch in the brain to be switched to off and to be a living, breathing organism that cannot relate to a word you just said, even if you points are understood conceptually.
Whether this switch is moved to the "off" position through genetics, trauma, or psychological abuse (we don't know), there are people who walk through life never once making a choice designed to sexually attract anyone...in fact, quite the opposite. If they learn that people are stimulated by an act or a look or an article of clothing, they will remove it from their life on all fronts.
These are not people who have been raped or molested. They're not even people who hate sex. They just don't have brains that register sexual touch as arousing, no matter who does it or how. And watching other people have sex is as stimulating as watching a pair of ants do it. Give them a vibrator for an hour, and they'll just read a book. Try to jack them off any which way and they won't get hard...no matter who does it or how attractive they are.
Certainly this is the minority of people. But, to them? No. Everything is not about sex. Even sex is not about sex. All that is certain is that we all came from people who had some sort of sex, and only the people who have sex will pass on their genetic memory to future generations. And the people who opt out will take their secrets with them...along with what they found so interesting that sex never made it to their Top 100 lists of enjoyable things to do?
What did they find infinitely more stimulating, and why? That's a question I'd like answered...hmm. So maybe I should find out and write an article. There's an idea...
Man, I love this site.
RE: Is Everything About Sex?