I would love to see this debated. The next question, I'm fairly certain, would be how one can claim a life can be defined by the lack of something unessential to personal survival? Can one's life be defined by a lack of Spam?

I'm going to try to have this conversation by proxy, but I'm certain you would do it better.

Also, this person would be adamant that they were not abused. Also, all their siblings are sexually active. They are considered attractive by many and could have sex any day of the week with a male or a female, but they are not interested. They do like touch, cuddling, and massage. They have no repulsion to signs of arousal in others. They just have no desire to do anything beyond what two cats would do in a sunbeam. The person I am thinking of currently is 40, is a virgin (yes, they exist), and is fine with any kind of body contact, but has no desire to get naked about it. Ever. Even under the influence of drugs that promote this kind of sensation. They've tried all the things with the promise that if they want to say yes, they will. They never do.