A fourth of my life complete (I'm planning on living to 200) and I've finally received a blowjob that I consider to be perfect. This inspired me to write an article on the topic to stimulate a discussion that will hopefully lead to sharing that will improve many [sex] lives.
My hope is that this will also inspire some females to share their experience in both giving blowjobs and - especially - their experience in receiving cunninglingus. I have a feeling the range of preferences for women will be wider than those of men.
Direct
No teasing like kissing their way from nipples down. Once you pull your hair back, we know what you are about to do. In that moment we are probably feeling grateful, excited, and eager. Some guys may like to be teased. I don't. Don't draw it out. Go straight to the cock.
Pace
Take your time. Medium-slow and consistent. Changing it up too much can be distracting. It can also give that message that you are in a rush to "get it over with."
Wet mouth
Duh?
Tight seal with mouth
Some may like to feel their cock lightly sliding in and out of your mouth. I don't. Use pressure. Need I say, "No teeth?"
Give a hand
Pump the shaft with your hand entire time or as much as possible. Tight grip. Rather than sliding the hand up and down the shaft, hold the skin of the shaft and move that skin. Less chafing.
Suction
Especially at the end! There is a huge difference between coming from being jacked off vs feeling hard suction as we are coming. It's like your soul being sucked out of your body, in a good way.
Your thoughts?
Men
What are your preferences? What makes a blowjob best for you? Finger up your butt? Porn? Animal participation?
Women
I'm super eager to hear from you and to learn all I can about your perspective and experience with giving and receiving head.