Sex in family life every year becomes less and less. And everyone, regardless of their earnings, social status, and physique. Before the two was shaking in bed from the passion, and now not. Who are the main enemies of a family passion?

If you do not prevaricate, and do not invent myths of Ancient Greece, sex and family life every year becomes less and less. And everyone, regardless of their earnings, social status, and physique. This is the same nasty law of nature, as weight gain after the holidays, or regular increases in fares. You can bet, but stupid. Much more interesting to understand the mechanics of the phenomenon and understand why it is happening. Let's try to understand why before the two shook in bed from passion, and now they look there "Game of thrones" and nibble sunflower seeds. And who are the main enemies of a family passion?

The number one enemy. Addictive

Everything in this world get used to it, even to the best. For the worst, however, too. People living near the zoo, eventually cease to notice strange smells that indicate the direction of the wind. Rather, they notice, of course, but the smells of them are shocking. The same training program ceases to shock the muscles, turning into a chore. And even disgusting cooking mother-in-law can eventually turn into something edible. This natural mechanism of adaptation plays an important role in our lives, but very dangerous to our sex. It encourages the wife to calculate the square footage of Wallpaper in the marital bed and the husband turns into the tin man, mechanistic and emotionless running a sprint.
What to do? Any forces to add variety, even when not very desirable. Modern industry offers a lot of subjects. You need to choose one that interested husband and wife. Anyone who refuses to do it under the pretext of braces, a couple of years will turn your sex routine, even more tiring than washing floors.

Enemy number two. Disrespect. A woman wants someone that is not respected. A man does not want the one that is afraid

This rule is very important for Russian families, where often the woman, and even together with mom, takes a leading role. It applies to those who berates her husband in front of colleagues at work. We are talking about cases where she pours it on him his aggression, knowing that physically you will not get change. Do it all on health if you do not want sex. If you want to sustain desire, then in any case do not. Humiliating a man, a woman automatically cease to perceive it as a worthy partner, and therefore no longer receives no emotions, no fun. The man, in turn, is also preoccupied with searching for another object. Why cut the branch on which you sit?
Enemy number three. Bans. More precisely, the lack thereof

Parents often told us: sex is dirty and shameful thing. Some parents succeeded in doing so that made the children hostage to their own systems. Since then, the children grew up and the settings stayed. And matured students are surprised to find out that the legitimate and legal of all the moral dogmas sex has lost for them any value, but the soul still reaches out to a dirty and corrupt. If this is true, then return the passions can only cross the border of the forbidden. However, the boundary at everyone, it can range from the innocent games in the maid to visit special clubs. How far to go – everyone decides for himself.

Enemy number four. The shortened program

Relationship with lover and lover includes a lot of intricate elements. From get-togethers at a restaurant to choice of accommodation with an erotic swing and a mirrored ceiling. The husband and the wife should do all the same thing "no warm up", and often under a blanket in the dark. As a result, people are not stupid enough to certain stimuli – visual, audio, tactile. They simply have no place and nowhere to take them: the children in the way, the grandfather from the stove fell. There is only one output – to get away sometimes from home, how would you have done if I were lovers. To hang sometimes children, nannies, aunts, grandparents. Bad, of course, but a couple of days in a month they will not break, and the sexual life will rise from the ashes.

Enemy number five. Even more basic instinct

People tend to experience sexual desire when it is not survive, not fight with the predator and not on the threshold of life and death. Therefore, if none of the above helped, you should check out – and not does your husband or wife in the moment of survival? Maybe if the husband is still dragging feet, Obuasi three jobs? Isn't the wife care for the family the situation of exhaustion that it can be called a survival, and almost a struggle for life? If so, the situation urgently needs to be changed!

Five things that will kill your sex life!