Lots of married couples struggle with a lack of sex or issues in the BedRoom,
it might be time to focus on ways to improve your communication, your sexual chemistry,
and perhaps seek professional help. According to a study by the National Marriage Project in 2011
, happily married couples ranked sex right up there
with communication, commitment, and generosity,,
(1), choose a time when you are both alone and not distracted,
having a conversation about sexual issues can be difficult and awkward
especially if you are both feeling the lack of sexual chemistry in the bedroom
A good time may be when you are both getting ready for bed
or after you have dinner together at home.
(2)Hear each other out. Don’t interrupt your partner when your partner is sharing
any feelings or concerns.
Focus on listening before you respond or speak.
(3) Broach the topic of sex in your marriage.....
Perhaps you have grown distant from your spouse or your
spouse has grown distant from you. Regardless, be proactive and get the conversation started. Let your spouse know that you realize it’s important to have an intimate connection in a relationship, especially in a marriage
.
(4) Ask if there are any specific issues or concerns
Maybe your partner is feeling exhausted by their workday, or experiencing a
negative image of their body. Discuss possible solutions to these issues,
like taking less hours at work
going on a vacation just the two of you, or taking up exercise together......
(5) Set the mood. Some couples find it difficult to have sex after having children.
If you cannot recreate some of the past situations where you were both sexual due to
your current commitments, focus on adjusting your daily schedule to make time.
Ask your in laws to take the kids for the night, or plan a weekend getaway,
just the two of you. Though it may not be exactly how it was in the past,
you can still create moments now where you both are in the mood.
(6)Show, rather than tell
Take turns showing each other how you like to be turned on. Be generous towards your spouse and focus on pleasing them. Your spouse should then do the same for you.
If the prospect of showing your partner what you
like seems uncomfortable, or daunting, get an
improve your sex life self-help book and read it together at night.
It will likely stimulate some great discussions and maybe some laughs.
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