Uber ride i'll never forget.
For the last three weeks i've been ubering my butt to work. My wife and I share a car, but our schedules are complicated at the moment with my erratic hours, and her two jobs (my woman is a go-getter). So i've been searching for a little "hooptie" to get me to and from work. In the mean time...these uber rides have been very interesting.
On Saturday morning, June 24th, i get picked up by Mary (to protect her identity, i've changed the name slightly). Mary, is a 33 years young Panamanian mother of one, currently driving uber full-time to support herself. "I like to make my own money to support my spending habits", mentioned Mary. Her daughter lives back home in Panama, and she has little family in the United States.
As we start our trip to my destination...Mary's gps instructions are interrupted by a phone call. She abruptly ends the call, not to interrupt our ride. "Feel free to answer the call, what if it's an emergency", I advise her. "You don't mind"?, shes replies. "No...no...go ahead, might be something important".
Mary proceeds to call the caller back, (for his privacy we'll call him Mike) to receive an unwelcoming tone of questions from her partner Mike. "Where are you", "how long before you'll return home", "when did you leave the house", are only a few of the questions. Once he finishes her call i ask her, "that's your husband"? "We're not officially married yet, but that's my fiancé", she replies. "Sounds like he's insecure", I say to her. "No, you think so"?, "He says he just worries about me, and doesn't like me driving uber". I tell her, "worried and concerned is understandable, but his tone of voice and attitude sounded a bit more insecure and controlling".
Mary then continues to tell me how when she met him, "he was such a nice guy", and everything she looked for in a man, he seemed to be about. Two years into the relationship and Mike is nothing how he first advertised himself to be.
Very common in relationships. They start off as something out of a romantic movie until people start to show their true colors. First few months are always beautiful. Couples want to impress each other so much, and are so blinded by that "love at first sight" feeling, that we don't really start being ourselves until we know the other partner is safely tucked under our wing.
Mary proceeds to tell me how when she met Mike, he was fun and outgoing. They had a lot of passion and Mike was down for all types of freaky adventures. Mike was more than open to try and experience most of Mary's sexual experiments. After a few months into the relationship, Mike's sex-drive was more like "parked". Not really driving no where often. Mary's sexual fantasies and desires have taken a backseat in the car and shes just been sitting in the passenger side waiting for the car to get rolling again.
"I've always wanted to have a threesome, have fun and share a beautiful woman with my man.", shares Mary.
At this point i'm just flabbergasted by the entire conversation. By far the best uber ride ever, hands down. Mary is a beautiful mocha colored, slim waist, bubble butt, 8 out of 10 rating (i'm a picky person, or her rating might've been higher) sexy woman. Mike, is a fool.
Mary asks me for advise on her relationship. She feels as if she's settled in the relationship because she thinks she's getting old and doesn't want to end up being old and lonely. "You're still young, and have a whole lot of life ahead of you", I said to her. Selling yourself short and staying in a relationship where you are unhappy is only going to make matters worst between the two of you as the years progress. An unhappy relationship is an unhealthy relationship.
In between of all of this she tells me how she doesn't want to cheat on him to fulfill her desires, but she hopes Mike will eventually turn things around for the sake of their relationship. She Proceeds to tell me about her previous lover, who was a married man that she had a great sexual relationship with but the guy was unwilling to leave his wife to pursue a real relationship with her. "Best thing is to leave that situation alone", I said. It's obvious he's only interested in one thing with you. Although you love the sex, once you try to build a relationship around it, 9 out of 10 times it won't work. Once you start to get to really know him, you'll discover more about him (the lover), that you obviously didn't know because your encounters with him were based solely on one thing.
Conversation got real heated as she described some of the things she would do, in the past, with her lover. The guy was a real freak of nature. Their episodes included sex toys, straps, tie-ups. All of the wonderful things that make up a really interesting porno movie. Only thing i couldn't agree with was fingers or any kind of object going up my "exit only sign".
Although it sounded as if Mary was still dwelling on her nightly episodes with her lover, she was firm on not being the "player" type and cheating on Mike. "Cheating is never a good option,
You're better off letting Mike go and seeking a new mate in life", was my advice.
As we get near my destination, our conversation slightly shifted towards my relationship with my wife. "I've requested a threesome in the past, but my woman is not the sharing type". We've kept the possibility open, if the opportunity presents itself, maybe we'll act on it. "Hey maybe we'll meet again under different circumstances and my wife and I will be able to fulfill your fantasy", I said to her with a cheesy smile. Mary giggled and with a warming smile said, "hopefully, we never know".
That's all folks, hope you enjoyed my little uber episode. I thought it was a real interesting ride. She turned me on so much i went home that night and plowed my wife with more passion than normal. Once you've been with your significant other long enough the spark in the relationship does fade a bit. You have to work as a couple to fulfill each other's needs and desires. If you have a business, you have to attend to it all times in order for it to progress and be successful.
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