Ouch! My tears almost fell when I read this. :'( Well you know what? He might be the right person but you probably just have to learn to accept the differences between you. My boyfriend was also like that at first. He is afraid of commitments because he is afraid to get hurt and to trust people. But, we learned to accept the differences that we have and we took the risk. I never regretted it because we are now almost 2 years in our relationship. :) And to think, he is very far from me and we haven't met in person yet. I know it sound so scary but, this is the path where we are walking on together. :) It feels like walking on a thread but, we did a good balance :)