I'm Sorry man.. that you feel that way, Women can be evil manipulative bitches, but in the same breath i'm going to tell you that so can us men, I have 2 kids, and a beautiful partner i dote on every moment of the day, Shes my rock.. Perhaps the problem your having is that you haven't met the right person for you, let me just tell you - I've been with innumerable women throughout my 26 years walking the planet, Why is it that this one woman has held me down for so long? Cos' shes the right one.. Bro WE do the banking, the cleaning, looking after our kids, Well - She does the majority of it, We work, we cook together, we even do the laundry together.. She make's me laugh, she make's me stronger man.. Together we make each other stronger - But all them other girls just couldn't, You know it took a long time to get to the point we're basically two peas in a pod, We've had little petty fights.. We've stayed at out brothers, mothers, nans.. But she's sat on the Sofa watching television, before we have to roll down to her mum's and nans to pick up the kids (We called in the babysitters last night, for a nice night, Didn't turn out so nice, Long story.. ) But we're here right now :) Point is mate, Talk to a woman, Learn about her and become her friend, before you try to make your move up to boyfriend, Doesn't matter whether or not you have/nt got it on. It's not a con man.. It's a blessing when it's the right woman. But always remember, She's got thoughts and feelings too, She could be thinking "why this guy.. What's he got to offer me ", So if you act like an idiot towards her, she might not forgive it :) A little advice, Protect your heart, don't get attached until the right moment, Have a little faith man .