Let Your Child Fly High - Smart Parenting !!

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"May this new year be a joyful ride for you and your family. Here's wishing you best year ahead. Happy New Year !!"

As a parent, we always want to see every aspect of our children's lives better. We give them a good upbringing to give them all that is necessary to be a better person. We want them to look better in every form. From the very first day of the child's birth, we start trying for it and start planning for a better future. This process of giving the best to the child settles in our hearts in such a way that we believe in ourselves that we are the creators of our children's future. We can not understand that every person is a different soul and they have their own future. The kind of relationship we have with our Creator, the same way their journey is associated with them and their creators.

As parents, we begin to decide what is best for them. It is also right, but to a limit. It is our duty as our parents that we guide our every step with the help of our knowledge. After fulfilling our duty as a provider, we need to free our children from the feeling of insecurity. For that we need to show complete faith in the Creator who loves our children exactly as we do and that love always lives in our hearts for our children.

This process can be combined with an attempt to blow the kite in a way. We always drag the kite to lift it up and up. By doing so, the kite fly high, but the kite remains connected to us with string, it should also be good for us. To take the kite high, we have to believe in the interaction between air and kite. The more we will loose the string, the higher the kite will be able to fly. During this process we need constant attention to how much we need to pull the string so that the kites fly in the right direction. The kite flies in our thoughtful direction, or in some other direction, this thing can be traced only when we allow kite to go up. Seeing our work of dressing kites will only bring happiness when it claims its victory in the sky. Similarly, providing and supporting our child through the creator is a delicate combination of emotions.

Therefore it is necessary to allow children to talk to the fundamental cosmic energy for the development of all facets of their life. Any child has a personal existence of himself and soon he develops it as an independent entity. We can own objects but not humans. By helping and guiding, mother develops a sense of right over that child. Due to this feeling, many problems start coming forward. Mainly when the child grows up and starts sharing his life's talk with his life partner instead of his mother. When we are able to hand over our children to the Creator, doing so does not diminish our responsibilities towards them and neither our bonds put them in any trouble.

We are just allowing those infinite divine energies to provide support to our children, which we provide them as parents, and which we may not be able to live in the boundaries of our physical body. Many divine support will be provided with ease to them by us. It will assure that whatever things happen is according to their well-being and their interests, and whoever is born, is able to travel in their life. These positive energies are born only because they can strengthen their life and the relationship between us.