It's a common practice in today's world to judge other's by their social media life. May be we all do that more or less. But think don't you sometimes show your 'fake personality' to social media. Ask yourself how many times you actually put something on social media to make yourself feel good, make other's jealous or something similar to this? Okay, if that so, this exact thing actually happens to us all. So there is actually no reason to judge others by their social media posting.
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But, there is always a but...
Why we should make ourselves vulnerable in terms of data by sharing out too personal thing on social media. There are many companies out there, who review social media activities of a potential employee before offering them a job. There is a reason of it. What do you think?
Social media platforms should be places where individuals can post whatever they want. But that should be within ethical/moral reason. We should use this as a place to express our freedom of thoughts and also our personal feeling. But bulling, hate speech is not a healthy way to express our thought, we all may agree on this point. So if someone judge you on the basis of the second one, don't judge them back or call them stereotype. Coz you made yourself vulnerable, you put yourself on the stage to judge.
Another issue is 'the fear to show our true self'. We all edit our photos to make it a perfect one. But in reality any one of us are not actually perfect. So if someone judge you on the basis of your this behavior, don't feel bad. Don't say that they have no right to say anything bad. Coz you yourself share this to get attention. If you only want to feel better do this privately. This is the way actually we make ourselves on the position of judgement. We don't realize that.
It's true that it's your wall, you have the right to post anything you want. But if you get judgement on the basis of this, make yourself ready to defend them if you have any logic. Coz you are playing in public and you let other's to say thing about yourself. So take your own responsibility to handle your social media posting.