At present, the divorce rate is gradually rising in China, especially in some remote villages. many young men and women divorced after flash marriage due to their lack of in-depth understanding of their own living habits, sexual interests, temperament and inconsistent values. Others are because material living conditions are difficult to meet their own expectations, believing that there is no hope for separation in future life.
In my opinion, the main reason is the mentality of people. they lack tolerance and their thoughts are not mature enough. Blindly pursuing a high-quality material life, and unwilling to exchange their hard work for labor results, they only know that they can enjoy their success, even if they have some financial resources, they cannot afford to struggle.
To tell the truth, the cost of marriage is also gradually increasing. many rural families cannot afford it. besides preparing their own son for the wedding room in the city, parents have to pay some of the wedding expenses. everyone knows what the expenses are. The most important thing is that parents are more worried about whether the married life of the younger generation will be smooth and smooth, so that parents will worry less about it. In fact, many things have gone against expectations. After marriage, some people often have disputes because of some trivial things in their life, they cannot face them rationally and calmly, which leads to the breakup of the relationship between husband and wife and the separation of their ways in the end.
According to the survey, there is a serious imbalance between men and women, many of whom are still single after 85. Therefore, the young men and women who are in the process of " besieging the city" urge divorced or unmarried older men and women to hurry up and regain their old self-confidence and create all favorable conditions to solve their own personal problems. However, I still want to quote a sentence to warn everyone,' marriage is risky and blind dates need to be cautious'!
The following is the translation：
适龄青年们、你爸希望你再相亲
目前，在国内，离婚率逐步攀升，尤其发生在一些较偏远的乡村里，很多男女青年因缺乏对各自生活习惯、性趣爱好、脾气秉性的深入了解，以及价值观的不一致，在闪婚后，又离婚；还有些是因为物质生活条件难以达到自已的预期，认为未来生活看不到希望闹分离的。
究其原因，我认为主要还是人的心态问题，彼此之间缺乏包容，思想又不够成熟；盲目的追求高质量的物质生活，而又不愿通过自已的努力工作来换取劳动成果，只知道坐享其成，纵然有点家底也是经不起折腾的。
说实话，现在结婚的成本也逐渐增高，好多乡村家庭都难以承担，家长除了要为自已的儿子到城区准备婚房，还要支付一部分婚礼上所需的费用，至于费用是多少，大家心里都有数。最关键的是家长们更担心后辈们婚后的生活是否能够顺顺利利，让家长少操心；事实上，好多都事与愿违；有些在婚后因一些生活琐事，不能理智和冷静的面对而经常性的发生争执，导致夫妻之间感情破裂，最终分道扬镳。
据调查，现在男女比例严重失调，好多85后都还是单身。因此，正处在‘围城’中的小编，劝已离婚的或未婚的大龄男女青年们抓紧时间，重拾自已往日的自信，创造一切有利条件来解决自已的个人问题；但我还是要引用一句话来告诫大家，‘结婚有风险，相亲需谨慎’！
