1. Opposite Sides Of The Coin
I don't want my PEAKD channel to become another red-pill hangout. I realize that women have their fair share of problems. However, at the same time, I have some concerns that I need to get off my chest regarding the obvious battle between the sexes that exists in our society today.
There is this one influencer named Nicki that has a YouTube channel named This Chapter Rewritten. Her entire video below appears to be interesting, but I did develop some reservations about it as I watched it from beginning to end.
Nicki Explains Why She Feels That Some Men Don't See Women As Human
It's not that her arguments and narratives are completely without merit. I've known of situations out there that she described in her video. The problem that I am having with her philosophy is that this issue is not as black and white as she tries to present it.
No matter how much these female influencers argue that men are the culprits in these disconnects between men and women, there are always two sides to every story and every issue. Below is a video in which an influencer named Dan compares the manosphere with the femosphere.
Radical Feminists Are Only Giving One Side Of The Story Regarding Friction Between Men And Women
I honestly feel that there is plenty of blame to go around for the problems that are currently happening between men and women. At the same time, I realize that many women don't seem to be taking accountability for their roles in this same disconnect that has been taking place between men and women.
2. My Experiences With Abusive Girls And Women
Throughout my life, I have encountered so many girls and women that were hateful and verbally abusive with me that I find it very difficult to buy into Nicki's arguments that it's all the men that are to blame for problems that are occurring between the genders. Women and girls are fanning the flames of the fire too.
When I was in the seventh grade, there was this one girl that was a year older than me and wore eyeglasses. Upon initially meeting her, she was warm and fuzzy with me. However, as time marched on, she became pushy and combative with me.
In fact, I remember playing volleyball in gym class, and this same girl kept bickering about everything that I did. In hindsight, I realize that she had conditioned me to trust her so that she could behave in this abusive fashion. Finally, another girl named Jeannie yelled at this one girl and told her to leave me alone. Afterwards, I didn't have any more problems with her.
It's interesting that I cannot remember this same girl's name, because back when I was 12 years old, it seems as though she was somebody important in my life. Now I just assume bury her in my memories as someone unpleasant that I wish to forget.
When I was in the tenth grade, there was this one girl named Theresa who was fairly friendly with me when I had first met her two years earlier. Out of the blue, she started acting hateful and ugly with me for no legitimate reason at all. What made it even worse was that her friend, Renee, was once my friend back in middle school, and she was even behaving deplorably with me.
There were many times that I felt like slapping these girls across the face. Of course, American society insists that no boy or man should ever strike a female no matter how much they deserve it.
In the work place, I have contended with female co-workers who have gone as far as getting me wrongfully terminated from my employment. Usually, these women begin acting hateful with me out of the blue for no reason at all after they mislead me into thinking that they're my friends. Such experiences can put a bitter taste on a man's tongue on whether or not he should really get married and start a family.
Once you marry one of these shrews, then they have the ability to invade your personal space in every way, shape, and form. I'm going to tell you that if you have an older sister that is bossy, verbally abusive, and manipulative, you probably don't want to allow yourself to fall into the legal trap of matrimony.
The United States is not a good place to get married and start a family. Women forgot how to be good wives and good mothers in our nation years ago, and now men in the younger generations must deal with the unpleasant fallout.
When I was living in New York City, I had two witches in my office that set out to make my life miserable. They would start conflicts with me. They would lie about me to others and make false reports about me to my boss, who, by the way, was a real piece of rubbish. I had fantasies about both of these women getting hit by a truck and killed out on the streets. They both proclaimed themselves to be devout Christians. Thank God I'm an agnostic. Pardon the expression.
There was a woman named MaryAnn I worked with at a call center later on. Of course, she never pretended to be my friend. She merely turned hostile on me after there was an honest misunderstanding between us about a sale that produced commission. She made threats against me.
What was so hilarious is that one night when MaryAnn had to work with me alone after 10:00 P.M., she went into a panic and became visibly scared of me. I don't know why she did, because she was the one who had always threatened me. It was never the other way around. Interestingly enough, I spoke with her husband on a few occasions, and he came across to me as a nice man.
After MaryAnn transferred to another unit, she became civil with me. I was civil back to her, because I didn't want to continue to have conflicts with her forever.
A female co-worker that I had the most trouble with was a woman named Vanessa. She was married and had a couple of kids. She was initially friendly with me when she and I first worked together. However, she then would make snide remarks against me out of the blue, and I'd feel disturbed as for why she did so.
Vanessa verbally abused me so many times and would attempt to intimidate me that I finally lost my temper with her. I never did anything violent to her, but I screamed at her on various occasions. When she finally moved on to another job elsewhere, I refused to attend her going-away party.
I cannot even imagine how horrendous it must have been for the poor unlucky soul who was married to Vanessa to have put up with her every day. This man was actually on his second marriage too. After being with her for so long, he probably wished that he never divorced his first wife. Like MaryAnn, I heard Vanessa cussing her husband out on the telephone on numerous occasions.
I've had so many unpleasant experiences with female co-workers that I could not fit all of my descriptions of them into this same article. My strongest advice to men is that if any of these types of women ask you about your relationship status or ask you to explain why you never married or why you married later in life, you owe them absolutely no response. Dan in his YouTube channel named "Men Need To Be Heard Too" will tell you the same thing.
Dan Warns Men Not To Explain Themselves To People Who Already Have Preconceived Notions About You
If someone, especially a woman, is prying into your personal business, then they don't respect you anyway. Therefore, why should you give them any explanation about anything? If they get offended by your refusal to give them a response, it's only because they never deserved your respect in the first place.
3. The Futile Fuss Over Gender Roles
In the real world, there are simply certain things that women are better at than men are and vice versa. If you throw a football to a young woman and try to encourage her to join a football team, she will probably tell you that you're a certifiable head case.
Well, fact has it that many men are not genetically designed to be cooks. Feminists insist upon living in their fantasy world of believing that spending one night in the kitchen and reading a recipe or two in a Betty Crocker cookbook are going to turn their live-in boyfriend or husband into the next Emeril Lagasse.
The fact of the matter is that if a man doesn't have the ability to cook, he probably never will. If he comes from a family of male chefs and he really has a passionate love for the culinary arts, then I say that he should cultivate his talents for cuisine. Otherwise, if he simply doesn't have the knack for it, it doesn't make any sense to expect that he ever will. Cooking is not his cup of tea or his forte.
It doesn't take a rocket scientist to figure out that if someone was never cut out to be a cook, they will never learn to be one. It infuriates me whenever some woman's libber starts running her mouth about how cooking is no different from doing the dishes or vacuuming the carpet. Such a comparison is intellectually bankrupt. Below is a video that explains why many men simply cannot cook and will never be capable of learning how to do so.
Cooking Every Day Can Feel Like A Never-Ending Jail Sentence For Someone Who Struggles With It
Not wanting to cook has nothing to do with chauvinism or laziness. It's a legitimate phobia like everything else of that nature. Cooking has become a dirty, thankless job that a number of people don't want to do, especially men. To those who hate cooking, the kitchen can feel like a torture chamber. One skin burn can throw a man into a fit of rage insofar as he'll feel like throwing the pots and pans against the walls of the kitchen.
Feminists are stubborn about understanding why certain men simply cannot function properly in the kitchen at a stove and an oven. If a man is exceptionally well at cooking and loves to do it, that is one thing. However, forcing a husband or live-in boyfriend who either struggles with it or cannot do it at all is a recipe for a house fire or a food poisoning incident. I guess some feminists have to learn the hard way.
4. Final Thoughts
It's perfectly all right to listen to what influencers like Nicki from the YouTube channel named "This Chapter Rewritten" have to say about gender harmony or rather the lack thereof. However, it always helps to get the entire bigger picture before jumping to conclusions.
It's no secret or mystery that men and women in the United States are not getting along with one another as well as they used to do so in decades past. At the same time, let's not place the blame entirely on one gender.
Men have equally as many bad experiences with women as women do with men. There is no one single way of looking at this situation other than from a bird's-eye view.
Men do not have it so much easier than women despite what some radical feminists may say. A middle-aged woman murdered her foster child so many years ago in my area. She received a lengthy prison sentence; but if she had been a man, she probably would have gotten the death penalty for it.
Hypergamy doesn't seem to be going away any time soon. Feminists will complain that in marriages, women are not only expected to bring home the bacon but to cook it too. However, if a man gets laid off from his job, how long do you believe that his wife will continue to support their household before she walks out on him? Probably not very long. I rest my case.
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