An acquaintance of mine named Charlie went to the dentist not too long ago. After the dentist and the dental assistant had worked on his teeth, he struck up a conversation with the dental assistant just to be sociable with her. Somehow she got on the subject of the fact that he had never been married or had kids. These questions made him feel uncomfortable. He thought that that would be the end of it.
Nevertheless, toward the end of a follow-up visit, this same dental assistant asked Charlie why he had never gotten married while he still had cotton in his mouth from the dental procedure. He became irritated and indicated to her that he didn't really wish to talk about it. Why should he? He hardly knew her and vice versa. Moreover, she had leaned something on a table against his cell phone, which he did not appreciate.
Charlie told me that he was never returning to this dentist again. The dentist herself was professional, but she had extremely limited hours and she only served her patients on Mondays. The situation was anything but ideal.
I don't wish to turn my PEAKD channel into a red-pill or black-pill hang-out, but I simply cannot keep quiet about incidents like these. American women are constantly derisive with single men who have never fathered children, but then they believe that they have a license to play mind games with men in the dating scene.
What it all comes down to is that the United States is not a good place to get married and start a family. Perhaps Charlie should have given that excuse to the female dental assistant for never having become the next Danny Tanner from Full House. Of course, she would have likely gotten offended. Then again, those kinds of people only get easily offended, because they want to be offended. It's like a woe-is-me type of complex with them.
1. No Viable Answer For Such An Intrusive Question
When you come to think of it, there's really no logical answer to such an intrusive question. Asking someone why they never got married is one of those stupid, unanswerable questions that are really meant to insult those who are being asked it. Therefore, anyone who asks it deserves to be offended when the person they're asking it answers them in a way that hurts their feelings.
In the above scenario, what did the female dental assistant expect Charlie to do? Jump into a time machine back to the earlier days of his life and change himself into some kind of Don Juan?
Some American women can be such pigs. I suppose some femi-Nazi misandrist will accuse me of being a misogynist for saying so, but I really don't care. They're the ones to blame for the existence of misogyny rather than men like Charlie. The video below tells it all.
YouTuber Dapper Dev Exposes Most American Women For What They Are
What did the female dental assistant want Charlie to tell her as a response? Did she want him to say to her that he was some kind of loser that could never score with the chicks? Charlie's personal life is none of her business. What part of that do women like her not understand?
Now, don't get me wrong. If some really attractive woman were to walk up to Charlie and she was wearing no wedding or engagement ring and she asked him if he had a girlfriend with enthusiasm in her eyes, I could see Charlie smiling and telling her that he didn't. If he knows that she is interested in him, why not let her know that he's available to her as a potential suitor? However, in the case of the female dental assistant asking him why he never got married, she was merely prying into business of his that had nothing to do with her.
Relationships and marriage have become like one massive popularity contest and caste system here in the United States. Falling in love is a dangerous pathway here in the so-called land of milk and honey. Hypergamy dominates every aspect of pair-bonding in this nation. Tomi Lahren is an entitled hussy who doesn't know how to treat men right, not even her own husbands and boyfriends.
2. The Downfall Of The Prima Donna
All you American men out there probably remember that one girl in both middle school and high school who had everything that any young girl could ever wish for. The good looks. The perfect body. The popularity. The charisma. The right friends. The exciting social life. The guarantee of romance.
Unless you were the star quarterback of your school's football team, the prom king, or the school hunk, you probably felt that you never had a shot with her. And if you mustered up the courage to ask her out, which was likely not easy, she either laughed in your face or pretended that you were invisible.
In hindsight, you have to ask yourself that if you had married this same girl in your early twenties, would she have made a good wife to you and a good mother to your children? Infidelity is usually these girls' middle names. Nobody can do enough to please them, not even their own boyfriends and husbands.
Even if the sex was good, your life would be miserable with a girl like this. You'd constantly be having to get tested for venereal diseases, and that would be no fun. There's a saying that it's better to have loved and lost than not to have loved at all, but one has to wonder about it whenever we're describing one's romantic pursuit of the homecoming queen herself.
YouTuber Dapper Dev knew a girl like this back during his adolescent years, and he was shocked to learn that she had recently hit rock bottom in her life. Watch his video below, and you'll see what I mean.
YouTuber Dapper Dev Describes The Brutally Honest Truth About The Proverbial Hot Girl From His Earlier Life
It's very clear that this woman that YouTuber Dapper Dev describes in his video above will not be attending any more of her high-school reunions, unless she's looking for her former classmates to laugh at her and ridicule her. She won't have anything to boast and posture about at these events. YouTuber Dapper Dev's video above reminds me of the lyrics of the song below.
The Song Titled "Lost And Turned Out" By The Whispers
If you're a single man who has never been married and some dipstick asks you why you never got married, you should tell her that it was because of hypergamy and misandry. Those are the two most likely answers for anyone who gets asked such a question. She probably won't like the answer that you give her; but, hey, she asked the question, so she doesn't get to choose the answer to it.
I would never wish homelessness and poverty upon anyone as what happened to this woman that YouTuber Dapper Dev describes. However, whenever a man gets down on his luck and he ends up on the streets, nobody ever gives him a pity party; and many homeless men are war veterans who fought for our freedoms. Therefore, I won't be giving this woman a pity party either.
President Donald J. Trump now wants to put these homeless people in internment camps. Of course, that's another article for another time. The elephant in the room here is that this woman that YouTuber Dapper Dev describes in his video above was like the queen of broken hearts who eventually took a major fall from grace after her luck ran out and her looks faded away.
3. No More Shame For Never Married Men
There are probably more miserable married men than there are ones that are living the dream life of matrimony and parenting here in the United States. A gentleman named John Griffin once travelled down that same pathway, and now he posts videos on YouTube against the institution of marriage. Watch his video on YouTube.
Marriage has progressively become a sham for the average American man. Community-property laws are killing the integrity of matrimony. Marriage will not necessarily bring you happiness.
At the end of the day, you owe no explanation for being childless and never married. Your life is your own. It's nobody's business why you never got married whether your reasons be voluntary or involuntary. Some people have no answers to such an intrusive and offensive question.
4. Final Thoughts
Times are changing here in the United States, and not necessarily for the better. Single, childless men will someday outnumber those that are married, with children, if they haven't done so already.
If the people you do business with ask you nosey questions concerning your marital status and parental status or rather your lack thereof, then it's time that you take your business elsewhere. Life has enough worries and aggravations. Why allow the people you pay to provide you with services to invade the private space known as your personal life? It's very nervy of them to do so.
Whenever nosey people pry into your personal business with questions of this nature, don't be afraid to offend them in your responses to them. In the real world, two wrongs do make a right. What they're doing is a clear invasion of your privacy. Being a people-pleaser gets you nowhere in life. Also, remember that marriage is not mandatory.
Usually, these same people are frustrated and miserable, if they're prying into your personal business. They don't have enough going on in their own lives, so they feel they have to nose into yours.
I remember once seeing a YouTube video of this one man in his sixties in a business suit who had a foreign accent. Some stranger asked him why he never got married and started a family. Instead of playing into this jerk's game, this one man with the foreign accent told him that he was not going to dignify such an intrusive question with an answer, because the other man was asking him it in a way that suggested that it was his fault.
I like that 60-something-year-old man's school of thought. There needs to be more people like him. I haven't been able to find that same YouTube video again.
I once remember seeing a rerun of The Mary Tyler Moore Show in which Lou Grant asked Mary Richards why she never got married. Mary replied to him that his question was highly inappropriate. Why do women get to say that but men are expected to answer the question? It seems like a double standard to me. Then again, in the world of radical feminism, almost everything is a double standard.
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