When someone says "Today it's hard to find someone who is really good", maybe such a question cannot be ignored.
Because in fact, some of us have complained that finding a good potential partner who wants to be taken seriously is very difficult.
However, such a thing is not a big problem, because if it is not capable for us to seek good, then try to make yourself good first, who knows God will move the heart of a good person to draw close to you.
Yes, if you don't find the best in your opinion, then be the best for those who find it, educate the heart to always like to improve themselves to be good and more deserving individuals.
Because when we have a lot of goodness decorated, then surely a good person will also approach to offer a beautiful story of "marriage".
Because if you are good, then God willing to come to you is someone who is good too, which is why you must always try to make yourself a good person.
Picking up a mate is not always by continuing to search, but staying still in improving ourselves with goodness without getting bored is also called by picking up a mate, because if it is good then Allah will deliver you a good figure.
And has God not revealed secrets about what is wrong in His word? That if you are good, God will meet you with a good person.
But on the contrary, if you never even want to stabilize yourself with goodness, or sober, then what comes to you is also the only thing that is sober.
Don't worry, you don't find someone who is good to match, if you yourself are still very persistent to make yourself a mate who deserves good.
The long wait is a pause for you to be more self-stabilizing, so use the time you have well and correctly in making yourself an appropriate figure with good deeds for good.
Because someone who is good will come to you, if only you knew how to never get bored making yourself a good person.
Believe me, even though at this time you don't find someone who is good, then with your patience in improving yourself a good soul mate will eventually find you, because Allah will move his heart to draw near to you.