The way we experience any given moment is largely based on the meaning we gave it in the past.
The moment itself is meaningless.
The more we detach from this past meaning and choose to see the actual meaningless of the present moment the more the more able are we to transcribe it anew with any feelings we want to inject into it.
Key is the willingness to do so, from then on the redefinition process will gradually become easier.
Enjoy transcribing,
Alex