Had you ever wondered why the world is full of pain and misery?
Hey, we often do not realize that the one who able to experience the pain and misery is the one who put expectations and desire, we want something but the reality showed up the otherwise. Desire or expectation is blind, they always expecting that when he achieved his desire then he will have the uninterrupted happiness. Of course, this kind of thought is funny and wrong, why? From the day of birth until now, is there any 3 days consecutively being happy without sadness? Or vice versa, 3 days in a consecutively feel the pain that never finish? Of course not, life is just a moment of pleasure-moment of sad, therefore, the expectation that initiates eternal pleasure is certainly wrong.
When we already in the consciousness state that in our body consist 2 part of "Self", one that witnessing every life phenomenon and the other one that full of desire. When we used the One that Witnessing Everything, ourmind will no longer need a solace when we faced with the reality. But when The One Who Witness everything is yet to find, then what we sees is endless sufferings and always require consolation of pleasant circumstances in the realm of ideas concerning future happiness that will never comes.
Because no matter how difficult our life and no matter how big is the problems we faced, the one who witness everything will always sitting in the throne of the heaven of peace. The one who witness everything only sitting down and watching the King of All Expectation and Desire torture his own body only to fulfill the superior feelings in the terms of achievement of wealth, throne and power in the world.
The King of Expectation must be funny and wrong, the point is when we realize that there is nothing in this world that can make happy forever, of course all the life journey were only just a moment of good time and a moment of a bad time. And then If he appears, say this verse to him: "Oh desire, this things does not make me happy forever", of course those desire and expectations will vanished quickly.
If we already able to do that, there is no things in this world nor the after world that comes in mind and disturb our inner peace, free from pain and suffering. The life journey will seems so bright and fun.
This kind of peace and tranquility will create a sense of happiness that is different from the pleasure when our desire is achieved. Because it is understood that this "self" can not be harm, can not be damaged and have a funny toy called the Desire that we spoke earlier.
When in this ecstasy comes to our life, the third EYE will appears, this EYE can not be broken and never blink, this eye is to see the undamaged goods, that is the sense and feeling of the other PEOPLE. This eye is called the Eye of Love and Compassion.
Eyes of Love
This eyes can see that the desire (person) can not be damaged, therefore it is good and funny.
Sidartarta says: "I used to weep for all these people, until my tears became blood. But now I just laughed for it, it turns out that the desire will never change, whatever pain or misery the person will always stay strong and can not be broken, even though his feelings say that he is not strong or not capable to suffer the pain, but surely he always strong and stay alive, just like seeing the FIRE THAT COMPLAIN OVERHEATING, is it funny right? "
Then the EYE of COMPASSION
This eye is to see that in the inner of every person are always feel cursed and unlucky.
Since there is a desire that always feel cursed, his feelings will always lead him to the illusion of happiness and his vision and understanding must be mistaken. Therefore, this Eye of Compassion understood the cure of the sorrow. Then the awareness to bestow the others will be born, he always wanted to helping everyone who feel cursed and unlucky without exception, because he already able to see the root of everyone's problem.
IN THIS POINT PEOPLE WILL EXPERIENCE MORE SMOOTHER TEMPTATION. THIS PEOPLE WILL TEMPTED TO FEEL MORE SUPERIOR THAN THE OTHERS, FEEL MORE PRECIOUS AND HONORABLE FROM THE OTHERS AND FEEL DIFFERENT WITH MOST PEOPLE, PEOPLE WANT TO BE TRUSTED AND LEAD OTHERS AND ANYTHING HE DO WANT TO BE RESPECTED BY THE OTHERS.
To pass this temptation, just say this phrase to the self:
"This greatness and superiority is not eternal and tasteless, compared to the will to bestow that create Compassion that always holy and bright"
Since getting this understanding and then every human attitude will just want to please the others, because he know that it seems that other people are feel cursed and want to be happy. This kind of love lasts without regret, irrespective of time, place and circumstances.
By using the Eyes of Love and Compassion that used to see the feelings of the others, the veil of the EGO will vanished, the self-desire will be gone forever. EVERYONE LOOKS ALRIGHT, ALREADY APPROPRIATE, AND THIS IS CALLED THE GRACE OF PERSONAL LOVE, the vanished of the will to receive and hostile.