Hello steemian
Previously i had made an introduction to this topic on my last post, so to have a vivid understanding of what am talking about its expedient that you go over the previous post and to my readers am actually sorry for the break in transmission, so having said all lets get started.
So what's it about finding the right motivation for success? As we had earlier discussed on the last post, motivation is actually the base foundation for every action human being take, so it is expedient that motivations are set right(for more on why motivations should be set right i would commend that you visit my last post). So on this post we are gonna be discussing when motivations are right or wrong.
So when can motivations for success be said to be right or wrong? Motivations can be said to be wrong when the drive for success is done to get back on someone or draw equal with someone who had looked down on you, even though you might get even in some cases but in scenario were person involved is actually working constantly to improve his or her self, you become disappointed and drenched out. So instead of trying to compete with someone, make yourself your benchmark, let it be that you are trying to beat the person you were yesterday.
Also do not draw motivation for success because you discovered you had no friends or people did not like you talk less of wanting to be your friend. In fact using such motivation would be very distructive and would land you at 'empty success' Because even after you have achieved the goal you would still realise that you are still alone and there is no one to celebrate the success with leaving you drenched, lonely and depressed. This can also explain why celebrities fall into drugs due to depression. So instead of being successful just to get people to love you, learn how to be friendly, also learn how you can add value to people lives and not what you can get from them.
In conclusion, when motives are wrong it leaves us disappointed, drenched, tired, lonely and above all it damages ourself esteem. So be motivated rightly!!
