Hmmmmmm "why must this happen to me" and a voice wthin me would resound if not you who else.Note,"experience is not what happens to you, It is what you do with what happens to you". God never waste a hurt! In fact, what will be your greatest ministry with Down syndrome child, than another couple who have a child afflicted in the same way? Who could better help an alcoholic recover than someone who fought that demon and found freedom? Who could better comfort a wife whose husband has left her for an affair than a woman who went through that agony herself?
God intentionally allows us to go through painful experience to equip us for ministry to others. The Bible says, "He comfort us in all our troubles so that we can comfort others: When others are troubled we will be able to give them the same comfort God has given us"
The very experienced that you have resented or regretted most in life -the one's you've wanted to hide and forget are the experience God wants to use to help others.
For God to use your painful experience, you must be willing to share them. You have to stop covering them up, and you must honestly admits your fault , failure, and fears. Doing this will probably be your most effective strength. People are always more encourage when we share how God's grace helped us in weakness than when we brag about our strengths.konwing that God would not allow temptation that is bigger than us to come our way, challenges are not meant to destroy us but to Make us a better person despite all odd. We learn better in our failure than succes .
Humans are all subject to life challenges no matter how big or small .
REMEMBER:
In the midst of all your problem, there is light at the end of the tunnel.Only if you stay put.quiters never win and winners never quit.
Oneluv to all steemians.