Today my esteemed readers of Steemit, I have a theme that although you may not believe it is worrisome and sad at times according to the circumstances and the people who live it, as it is when our parents reach advanced age, and they become children again, situation even more difficult and complicated when they have diseases or neurological disorders typical of age and other more alarming as Alzheimer's.
Because it saddens me because we are not prepared on many occasions to take care of them, protect them and consent as they should and deserve, because of our commitments: work, professional, personal, with children, economic and others, unintentionally we mistreat them, because by their condition they require a lot of patience, tolerance, love and above all of calm, in a personal way, my mother that I love and adore presents very strong neurological and senile disorders, repeats things n number of times, does not know what he does, he forgets where he puts things, he does not remember if he ate or not, that is, he does things like little children where you have to be behind them: watching them, correcting them, protecting them, reminding them every second like: where things are, what they are, how they are used, in other words they become children again.
Sometimes I think and I apologize to God because I do not have enough patience and tolerance to take care of her, forgetting that maybe when I was a girl I was the same or worse as she behaves and yet she had the strength, tolerance and patience that in my opinion I lack.
There are people who have had to put them in care institutions, either because they do not have enough patience to care for them or because they do not want to do it, they do not know, they remember or they are not aware that we were the same when we were children and when we arrived At a certain age, we become children again.
I, and I hope not to change my opinion and I ask God very much that it be so, I have not thought of confine it or intern it in any geriatric institution for its care, unless there is a situation that deserves it, since, I think we should do an effort to take care of them and protect them because thanks to them: we are what we are and how we are, they filled us with love, they taught us: principles, values, faith, hope, they gave us: trust, security, protection and freedoms.
I suggest that those who care for their parents with advanced ages and even more with difficult mental, neurological or physical disabilities, ask God to give them a lot: patience, tolerance, love, strength and hope to attend and taking care of their parents, since, it is the least we can do for them, after they gave a lot for us and dedicated a great part of their life to make us people: successful, kind, caring, positive, victors, humanitarian , fighters, humanists, loving, tolerant, protective, family, friendly, participatory, cooperative, and above all filled with much faith and hope in their special and perfect being as God.
For all that I have explained, I leave you a very special video dedicated to those special beings that allowed us, besides God, almighty, to be here today, I just hope you like it:
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Love a lot and tirelessly those beings who taught us to make special people in this world, take advantage of sharing with them every second we can, many blessings to all and thank you for reading this post that only recommends asking God a lot to enlighten us and of patience and time to honor our parents.