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In this post i'll be teaching you how to turn a negative situation into a positive one.
Negative emotions are the single, biggest enemy facing humanity.
If we had no negative emotions, our lives will be tremendously great, same would be our relationships, health and anything else relation to us.
Therefore eliminating negative emotions should be our top priority, once you discover this, your thinking and hence your life will change forever.
To eliminate these negative emotions, certain questions need to be answered. Questions like:
Where Do Negative Emotions Come from?
Almost all negative emotions depend on blaming someone or something for the negative occurrences in your life. The problem here is, people hold on to these negative emotions even when they cannot out rightly change the outcome of the situation.
The key to eliminating these emotions is quite simple take responsibility for yourself, your reactions and your responses. It’s quite unbelievable that the difference between *happiness and unhappiness is something as simple as taking responsibility.
You cannot take responsibility for life, reactions and responses and be negative at the same time. Your mind can only focus on a thought at a time, positive or negative. So anytime you feel negative say to yourself over and again I’m responsible.
You may be thinking right now “how do i take responsibility for situations caused to me by other”? In every situation whether it involves you directly or not, you are always partially responsible for what happened. Its either you got yourself into the situation or you stayed in the situation. You did or said certain things. So you are not completely innocent.
On the other hand let’s say you had nothing what so ever to do with the negative situation, probably you packed your car at a parking spot and another car smashes into your car, so you could argue your are not responsible for the situation but you are still responsible for how you respond to it. Do you shout, get angry and trouble the while environment? Or you take a deep breath and stay calm.
This is what i call “your response ability”(your ability to respond in a positive way) and this largely to an extent determines your success and happiness in life. The truth is nobody can make you feel negative about a situation in your life other than the way you choose to feel about the situation. Of you think about things that make your angry and unhappy, you’ll automatically feel negative also if you think of things that makes you feel happy, you’ll automatically feel positive.
The most important thing you need to know about negative emotions is that you are in total control of how you feel and over the way you respond to any situation.
I’ll like to end with a thought for you to share with your friends and followers. > Accept complete responsibility for every part of your life, refuse to blame others or make excuses
I hope this post helps your turn a negative situation/emotion into a positive one.
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