Hope that you get to see your son as soon as you are able to. I have a boy about the same age as yours, so I can only imagine...video chat would certainly not suffice. If you don't mind my asking, did this relocation on behalf of your ex just happen all of a sudden without your foreknowledge? If so, that's super sketchy and I hope that didn't happen to both you or your son...certainly not good for anyone especially as I'm guessing he's in either first or second grade, I know my son would not want to be told that he's going to move and leave his friends at school and his teacher behind. Anyway, voting for you.