For Husbands -Prov 5:19 Be satisfied and ravished always by her love.
Eccl 9:9 Choose to live JOYFULLY and enjoy life every day with your lovely wife 'cos life is "too short".
1Cor 7:3 Render due Benevolence to your wife by ;
(a)treating her better than she is worth as you overlook her weakness to do her good.
(b) treating her with kindness as you carry out thoughtful actions deliberately to bring her comfort with out her asking.
(c) giving her the good she rightly deserves for being your wife. 
Eph 5: 25-27 Husband should build up the wife with sweet, loving words daily to make her emotionally obsessed with him and physically strengthen to satisfy him in bed.
For Wives - Gen 2: 18; Accept him for who he is totally without conditions, regardless of his flaws
Song of Sol 4: 7; Admire him daily. Deliberately look out for something to compliment about him.
1Thes 5:18; Appreciate your husband always for his thoughtful gestures, whenever he buys something home or helps out at home.
Eph 5:24; Adapt to your husband. Give him what he likes and avoid the things you know he doesn't like. Suggest to him during decision making and support him after decision is taking by him.
