Good day parishioners I am here to finish what I started. The coupling of a virtuous man and a virtuous woman.
THEORY:
Most people Will like to experience the euphoric feeling of a PERFECT MARRIAGE with whom they want to get married to but the problem is how much effort is being put. When the principle of a virtuous man and a virtuous woman is being applied, the perfect bonding is sure. Marriage is never in between its either you are in or out.
ASSUMPTION TO THIS FORMULA:
It is assumed that a "perfect marriage will only exist when dealing with a deaf and a blind couple". This is because the nagging of the wife cannot be heard by the deaf husband and the blind wife not being able to see the husband's shortcomings. A very funny assumption and not a true one at that.
PARAMETERS OF A PERFECT MARRIAGE:
the parameters are infinite but I'll highlight the fundamental parameters.
PRAYER: I made prayer the foundation because it is very key. Praying for a successful and a happy home, knowing that the seed of love is made by God's power. So by praying, it renews the affection and guides the couple away from temptation.
sourceTRUST: Trusting each other is very key to any marriage as it is one of the criteria for a long lasting relationship. For a relationship to be maintained, there has to be TRUST between the couple.
sourceLOVE: relationship should be built not based on love but true love. It is very necessary to love truly at all times. This will surely be a reason for a long lasting relationship
sourcePATIENCE: patience is a major factor in any relationship as it one of the qualities of what God's children should possess. Patience helps to understand and overcome our hindrance in life.
- SPEND TIME WITH YOUR KIDS: The most underrated problem in a marriage is the thought of kids not being a major issue. Children can be a hindrance towards having a happy home. I am placing this last because the major purpose of marriage is to multiply and not only should you bring them into this world but also be a good father or mother to them. Show them the right path. Let them walk in a godly path.
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Here are some few bible verses to help out:
Genesis 2:22-24, Proverbs 5:18-19, Proverbs 20:6-7,Ephesians 5:22-33, 1 Corinthians 7:1-16
CONCLUSION: no marriage is perfect but your will to make it so is the way to perfection. Pure perfection is mythical. Know whom you are choosing for a life time before walking down the aisle. I hope this FORMULA has been of great help to the parishioners and steemchurch at large. Let us be virtuous in our ways and PERFECTION will locate us.