They say that the human being should not save love, on the contrary, he must distribute it and practice it at all times. But, unfortunately, this is not how everyone acts or thinks. There are people who are cold and have difficulty demonstrating their feelings.
This happens at many weddings. Some wives are extremely kind, while husbands are not, and vice versa. One thing is certain: there is no marriage that will endure without love, because only love "suffers everything, believes everything, hopes everything, endures everything" (2 Cor 13,7).
The lack of love in any relationship is the cause of many frustrations, breaks, discord. But when there is love, he destroys the disagreements and builds a home.
Speaking about marriage, the following sentence says: "The beloved woman, becomes kind." To paraphrase these words, it can be said that both man and woman when they are loved, become kind to each other, because love is strong enough to change someone's life.
When one of the spouses feels loved and valued, he will certainly repay what he receives. It is not without reason that the renowned American doctor Norman V. Peale said: "The universe is a sounding board in which you get back everything you give, and the basis of the Christian message: love to get love back " This is a truth. You must plant love, to gather love. However, maybe you are like this: getting back all the bad things you have given your spouse ... Many husbands lost the will to even kiss or hug their wife. In the same way, many women no longer feel the lack of their husbands, they do not even feel the will to be near them.
Who knows you have yelled and mistreated your spouse a lot more than you did a fondness. For you, any "memory" is synonymous with spending money, you never see it as an act of love. Who knows the daily comparisons have been the language of your home, that is, you overvalue the spouses of others, and always belittles yours.
Love is really the foundation of any relationship; whether in a relationship between father and son, husband and wife ... He is the essence of life. Interesting to remember what is written in the first letter of the apostle John 4.8,16: "He who does not love does not know God, because God is love ... [...] And we know, and believe in the love that God has for us. God is Love, and whoever remains in love abides in God, and God in him. "
The lack of love corrodes not only the heart, but life as well. Little by little the person stops living and giving rise to other feelings contrary to love, including hatred, bitterness ...
How has your relationship with your spouse been? Is this essential ingredient missing? Or are you afraid to love? "In love there is no fear before perfect love casts out fear, because fear involves torment, and whoever is afraid is not perfected in love." (1John 4.18.)