Are you tired of lying? Take the best decision today and confess the truth to the person to whom you have failed. Do not admit to confess only the most blatant lies and intentional deceptions, the lies do not have sizes or colors, they are all the same and have the same consequence.
What about the occasions when you say you're going to a place and you do not? Or when you promise that you will be punctual and arrive late? Or when you agree to call someone and you do not? Is that an honest way to live?
Does that allow people to trust your words?
How different everything would be around us if each moment we would prefer to tell the truth regardless of the consequences. Jesus is our clearest example of the truth; Even knowing that he was going to die on a cross, he never chose to lie to get rid of death.
Maybe you should seize the moment and open your heart before God. Maybe you need time to think before speaking and be sure that your commitment will be true. It is a time of commitment to love and truth without giving rise to sentimentality and irresponsibility.
The best option is to talk to God who will guide you to do things correctly. Only the voice of God gives you unconditional love, accepts you as you are, with all your strengths and weaknesses. He is the only one who offers us the precious gift of truth and grace because he is the only one who combines these qualities in himself. Then we can hear it with joy because He is honest and loves us like no other does.
James 5:16 tells us: "Confess your offenses to one another, and pray for one another, that you may be healed. The effective prayer of the righteous can do much. "
This is the key for all those who want to abandon a dishonest life.