Dear Community!
If you observe, you will see that our daily routine is full of habits. They are customs that we acquire and that we carry out without effort, because they are already part of who we are.
Some small examples of the presence of habits in our life are when someone brushes their teeth every morning in the same way or when a person lunches every day at the same time.
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Some habits are harmless - and even useful for day to day - but there are others that become problems in a person's life.
Man is the fruit of the habits he maintains. If you analyze a person's life and begin to evaluate their habits, you will understand why their life is that way.
Your body is a reflection of your eating habits. Sin is a habit, it is a vice, most sins are vices. All the habits of a person define the life that they will have.
Accompany me to see now a In the book of James, in chapter 1, in verse 19, there are three habits that a man should cultivate and that will help him succeed in life: being ready to hear, belated to speak and late to get angry.
1) Be ready to listen:
"That means 'humility.' This habit is not very peculiar to man, because man, because he has to charge, because he wants to maintain his appearance, ends up being resistant to the fact that he needs to learn, that he needs to hear. You want to be successful, you need to lean to learn, the humble one is the one who recognizes: 'I do not know, I do not have the answer, I need to inform myself, I need to discover.' That is the humble one.
A Uncle Pastor always says: He who has the habit of always being ready to hear, will always grow, because he is willing to learn. "He is ready to listen, ready to be taught, ready to be molded, ready to be discipled."
2 Late in speaking:
It has nothing to do with being still. It has to do with weighing your words, watching over your words. Do not be hasty to promise some things and then talk that you will not do. His word, as a man, defines him.
Man is worth the word he has. In the past, when a man made an agreement with another man, he gave the word of him, that is why he has the expression 'I give you my word'. To be late in speaking is to know when you should speak. "
3) Late to get angry:
"That has to do with emotions, anger is a power that has to be reserved for specific moments of our life, on a day of holy revolt, you are able to perform more than a year of your life. I should have taken it a long time ago Anger is bad when you do not use it the right way or when you allow yourself to become a person taken from rage, temperamental, from an explosive temper to the point where no one can stand you.
Many women 'walk in fear' near their husbands, because they are explosive men. They are men who are not in control of their own rage. Being late to leave means you are controlled, have control over your actions. "
Follow these three tips and you will see how you will enjoy positive results in your way of life.
Change the bad habits of your life
If you want to have a better life, change your habits. Do a self-assessment of the behaviors that have harmed you, that have brought you problems and do not help you grow in life.