Happy Sunday everyone, it’s essiens. It really feels great to be here. Today I wanna speak on the topic SECRET THINGS YOU NEED TO KNOW ABOUT RELATIONSHIP/MARRIAGE.
Nowadays, a lot of people don’t really know what marriage is all about. They don’t know the basic things about marriage. They think marriage is like a mere relationship that they can misbehave. Actually, in this article, I’ll tell you the basic things you need to know about marriage. This article is both for the young ones who are not yet married, for those that are about to get married and also for those who are already married.
However, they are lots of things you need to know before getting married. This things are the things that will help you to follow the right path when you’re married. The things are:
- IDENTIFY YOUR WEAKNESSES
However, when it comes to marriage, you need to identify your weaknesses. A boring marriage is the one in which the two couples has the same weakness. Infact, that kinda marriage don’t last. Your marriage will be boring if you’re a dull type and you went and marry a dull type too. You need to marry the person that will compliment the errors in your life. Marry someone that doesn’t have your same weaknesses.
- MARRY SOMEONE OF YOU OPPOSITE BEHAVIOR
Sometimes, I do imagine how a hurt tempered person will marry another hurt tempered person 🤔. That means they’ll be war between them throughout the marriage. So if you’re a hurt tempered person, you can get married to someone who is always cool. And If you’re a stingy person, don’t get married to a stingy type like you...🙄. This are the reason why separation do comes in marriage. Marry your opposite behavior.
- MARRY SOMEONE OF YOUR SAME BELIEF
Mostly when it’s comes to spirituality, don’t marry someone of your different belief. I wonder how a husband will be Christian then the wife a Muslim 🤔. How do you think such marriage will be? Reasoning this with me, I don’t think such marriage will work. So marry someone of your same belief.
- MARRY SOMEONE THAT KEEPS TO TIME
This is very important in the sense that if you get married to someone who don’t normally keep to time, you’ll always be late in everything you do. Even your children will be going to school late. So marry someone who do keep to time always.
- BE MORALLY PURE
Here brings us to the Bible, Proverbs 6:32 “He who commits adultery lacks sense; he who does it destroys himself”.
Actually, a lot of married people don’t know this, They think committing adultery isn’t that bad. I wanna make you understand that a man who commits adultery is blind in his mind. Men who do commits adultery don’t lay good judgments. A man gets blind after immorality. However, I came to realize that most men’s weak points is a woman. So any man you can’t get through a woman is a tough man. Such men are hard to get in any other thing.
Immorality is one of the major things that reduces a man easily. Most of this men who do sleeps around, I wanna let you know that no sex is cheap. The cheaper the girl, the higher the consequences.
Most of the people do think that sex is an enjoyment. I wanna let know that no sex is an enjoyment. Sex is marriage, Because it’s happens when two fleshes comes together. So when two fleshes comes together, if forms marriage. Any marriage without sex is not marriage because the two fleshes hasn’t come together.
Don’t think sex is an enjoyment because when you have sex, you share both the body and the spirit. So if you have sex with a lesbian, it is possible that the spirit of lesbianism has been transferred to you. That’s why you see most men carrying the spirit of homosexualism because that spirit has been transferred to them. So note that sex is transaction. It has to do with the body and spirit. Most of the people tends have bad dreams after sex, they see their selves in another world and get into bondage after having sex. This is because the people they had sex with weren’t good people, the person is carry’s along bad spirit. So be mindful of the way you mess around.
However, God placed a curse on Soddom and Gomorrah because of their immoral acts. So since this people died, their spirit has been walking round the earth and this spirit is the spirit responsible for immorality. So that’s why when a boy is with a girl in a quiet environment, the spirit comes around in order to make them commit immoral acts. So always try to resist that spirit of immorality.
Moreover, have you ever asked yourself why women do wear white gown in a wedding? It’s because white represents purity, it’s shows that the woman is virgin. So it’s not every women that should be permitted to wear white gown on their wedding day. A woman that is a virgin has pride and value. That’s why any woman who looses her virginity looses her pride and value. So women who sleeps around looses their value, they exposes their body which shows degradation of womanhood.
One of the reasons why men do marry virgin is because marrying a virgin do bring grace. Most people do find grace after marriage because of the woman they got married to. So in any marriage you wanna get into, try an keep yourself pure in order to make a good home.
So in conclusion, always try to be morally pure before getting married in order to make a good home.
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