Greetings my brothers!
Denying the fact may be the first position of the person who had his hopes frustrated.
How to handle the news and / or events that we do not expect?
Answering this question is not easy. And in fact there is no magic formula to solve this. The secret is to learn to handle the situation based on what she offers. To help understand this dynamic of life, we gather the path that many people pass, pass or will happen.
1st stage - The news or the unexpected event
Result of test, loss of a loved relative, unexpected reaction of a person in relation to something or someone. There are many cases in which news or events escape our expectation. The suggestion is not to stop here. It is learning to handle these situations.
2nd stage - No acceptance
Denying the fact may be the first position of the person who had his hopes frustrated. However, this is only the first moment. There are those who experience it briefly and there are also those who fail to make progress after the frustration. Even this stage ends, sometimes, marked by anger and fear. The suggestion is not to stop here.
3rd stage - Lack of spirit
Over time, the sadness begins to gain space and the mood is being mitigated. Accepting help and above all letting yourself be helped is the best thing to do at that moment. The suggestion is not to stop here.
4th stage - Making sense
The word accept defines well the step that needs to be given before the adversities of life. It is in this movement that the person begins to truly give meaning to what happened to him.
5th stage - Find peace
Peace is not the absence of conflicts, but it is the personal encounter with the Lord. He never frustrates our expectations. He always surprises, goes beyond. To find Peace is to perceive that situations in life can even be hard, but they are not capable of shaking the fullness of a heart that found the Sacred Heart of Jesus.
