Every marriage in life has it's own oil. It could be an oil that can effectively run the engine of the marriage, or a bad oil that tends to destroy the engine of marriage.
For the hand of God to maintain your marriage, the following are needed.
Your marriage must fear God.
For your marriage to fear God, you need to invite Jesus into it from the initial stage.
Jesus was at the wedding to make the purpose of the father to fulfill.
Problems come when we lose concentration on the purpose of God. If Jesus is not number one in your life, you cannot give your partner a complete love. Follow the pattern of Jesus so as to fulfill the purpose of God in your marriage.
Jesus was also at the wedding because He is the light. And He had to present Himself to the people as the the light which shines bright in every dark situation.
The organizers of the marriage feast were not intending to disappoint their guest, that's why they had to invite Jesus. Men that esteem Jesus cannot be disappointed.
Be wise.
Don't walk like a fool, always guage ur lantern. Wisdom will help u to run your house effectively.
Value righteousness and live that life until your spouse confirms you are righteous.
Love each other.
Always love the voice of ur husband and don't be like Eve.