I don't think we know how powerful understanding is and the extent of what it does. Many relationships have ended because of lack of understanding.
It takes grace, I must confess to try and understand any situation. However, I also emphasize on patience, if you lack patience you will fail to understand.
Many of us want to react whenever some thing pisses us off. We are quick to make a decision without thinking from the other person's view.
Yes, relationship is hardwork because you have to take lots of excuse, pain. A lot of people react out of what they heard or even saw.
Nobody likes complain, and when it comes to a relationship especially when there are no knots tied yet, you do not feel obliged to report to anybody.
The problem is not for one person to solve, the two people involved have to work together to bring a good result. Even the Bible says that two cannot walk together unless they agree. You cannot have a pleasant relationship if there is no agreement, togetherness and power of unity.
I advise that people should listen more than they talk, and listening is different from hearing; try and think on the words you heard and act with wisdom.
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