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The remarkable thing is we have a choice everyday regarding the attitude we will embrace for that day. We cannot change our past... we cannot change the fact that people will act in a certain way. We cannot change the inevitable. The only thing we can do is play on the one string we have, and that is our attitude. I am convinced that life is 10% what happens to me and 90% of how I react to it. And so it is with you... we are in charge of our Attitudes.
Charles R. Swindoll
In life things happen and more things will happen, that is the reality of living. There will be trouble caused by you and there will be trouble caused by other people who either where reckless and irresponsible or ignorant and stupid. But bad things will happen.
You may met irresponsible drivers who may cost you pain and loss, it could a doctor, a nurse, a school teacher, a friend, a relative, a business partner, a wife or a husband. It could be a leader at Church, in the government or your boss at work. Any of these may happen to be irresponsible and cost you a lot, and that is understandable. Because it is a life fact.
But to let all that happen to us because of other people's recklessness and irresponsibility drive our lives, it is being irresponsible too. You may spend the whole day complaining about weather, traffic jam, politicians, spouse, friends, broken systems without taking personal responsibility in that situation you will solve nothing. Because complaining is not taking personal responsibility as a matter of fact it is irresponsible to complain. People who are wise do not complain they look for a way to create something good out of the ugly situations.
There will never be a day in life when we will have perfect governments, institutions, individuals, systems, family, spouse and etc. What always makes a differences is those who choose to take personal responsibility in every situation even in the things that it is not their fault.
Complaining and blaming others even though you may be right it not right, because it solves nothing. If you what to solve life challenges, learn to find away to live on, push on even when you have just experienced failure, heart break, disappointment, loss etc. Admit the situation you're in, if you need to cry let it rain. But as soon as possible stand and keep walking, keep working. Take responsibility of what you can do.
It is an important attitude in all areas of life. Be it relationship, business, friendship, work, studies etc. It is a sure way to get forward, to succeed, to winning, getting somewhere and achievement. Every time you spend complaining and blaming people and systems is a wasted time, is helping those who are irresponsible to destroy your beautiful life and great potential.
What destroys your life is 10% the irresponsibility if others and 90% your own irresponsibility in time when other people's irresponsibility has caused you trouble.
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