Thanks to the Goldencenser, I have a message for myself as well as a message for you too.
The Lord is far from the wicked, but he hears the prayer of the righteous. (Proverbs 15:29-30)
The above scripture makes us to understand that God is not a party to any individual who constantly thinks evil concerning another person. He hates a man and woman who hates what is good. God wants us to have a good life but when one does not have life worthy of God, God tends to be very afar off from such fellow.
On the contrary, God delights in a man whose ways are upright and good. He hears such person any time he or she calls. When your ways are straight, God makes even your haters and enemies to live in peace with you.
So, I want to encourage eac and everyone of us to have a straight-forward life, a life God can be proud of. It's quite unfortunate that for many persons, no one can vouch for. Aspire to be a person of integrity.
Let people know you for who you are. Do not pretend to be what you are not. In all your ways, ensure to always acknowledge God.