Evening my steemit friends and happy Sunday. I want to let you know my observations as regards Pre-Marital preparations and hazards.
Marriage is the union of a male and female to live together after the marital rites has been fulfilled, in order to produce children and make a family.
Meanwhile there are Pre-Marital hazards and issues that occur from time to time between the prospective couples.
There are some known preparations or arrangements that must be compulsorily put into considerations before the final decision about marriage is relatively considered.
Watch And Pray
*Watch and pray: Simply means, You should watch first, be sure you have gotten some facts while watching! It means you must not blame God for whatever you need to know, but you ignored ignorantly, before you pray at all.
*Prayer should not be the first according to that cote, so you must at least satisfy yourself by making some research, in watching your partner to be, know little about him or her, as of course you can't know all. The little that will definitely be of help to you, As you musnt settle for all things that come across you. Make sure you relate with people around him/her to know facts about your spouse, be wise enough, because it's a life journey you're about to embark upon.
*Whatever you ask from God, is what he will do! You might be desperate to marry, and because of that pray hard to receive what you have seen. And you will later blame God for your predicaments when unpalatable issues begin to occur in your home. So be calm and Watch very well, before you jump into marriage.
*Pretence and deception can even set in, so can you see you really need to be sensitive in the area of watching very well, before taking a drastic decision that will soil your tomorrow and life forever.
It has always be my conviction to watch before praying, and i have been telling people around me to note that, because ignorance is not an excuse.
My cousin is about to get married! Meanwhile she ought to must have watched the spouse well and be verily sure that it suits her will, but ignorantly show the spouse to all her family members, and agreement has been reached by both families to bring them together in holy matrimony, before she now ran to we her family, that the spouse is an addict drunk, and that she should be rescued. It's still better because they are yet to be locked together in holy matrimony. Incase they are married, no remedy but to encourage her to endure the cross due to acclaimed ignorance.
So my fellow steemians, do the needful, when preparing for marriage, and always be ready to WATCH AND PRAY! As-in watch very well before you pray, and stop blaming God for your misfortunes when encountered.
I hope you must have learn one or two things from this post in my blog
It's a life journey, you're about to embark upon, so relax, don't rush, watch well, and later pray for perfection.
It's going to be very hazardous to refuse to watch but pray first before choosing, ignorance is not an excuse.
Avoid the temptation, avoid the hazard, plan well and live a life worthy of emulation.
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