Most women these days live their lives according
to the TELEMUNDO SOAPS and LOVE STORY
MOVIES which is not right according to African
context.
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After seeing a soap star crying out of love for his
lover, she bears a feeling of making her man to
do
the same which is impossible to African men.
They forget that those soaps are just acted, they
are not for real, that's why we have witnessed a
number of young girls dreaming of getting
married
to white men claiming that those men are loving,
romantic, well groomed, salvado-like, caring, and
rich as well, which is the opposite.
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But on fulfilling their dreams, and it doesn't hit
their expectations, that's when they realise that
all
along, they have been dreaming of hell instead of
heaven, they grabbed a puppy instead of a kid
and
took off with it.
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Take an example of our female celebrities who
got
that chance of tying themselves on white men,
the
likes of Iryn namubiru, sanyu cindy, Grace and
others, are they still with those white men? No!,
so
pick a leaf.
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First of all, in Europe and US, a wife and a
husband
contribute to bill clearance unlike here in Africa
where it's a husband's responsibility, despite the
fact that some men tend to dodge them, but it's
their responsibility. Our ladies have that
mentality
of "Sente yekikazi" which doesn't work in those
countries, that's where the problem bases hence
to
divorces and domestic violence!.
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Lastly, it's not a white man's tradition to give his
wife money, yet most of our African ladies think
that they were meant to be given and looked
after.
In europe or america, it is a must for a woman to
work and help his man on some things
financially!.
The only things a white husband will give you are
gifts, most especially flowers and some dresses,
but only on birthdays, anniversaries, and
valentines.
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So, young African girls tend to pray catch me if
you
can in relationships, since they often see a soap
actress doing it to her lover and the poor man
chases her to moon and crosses oceans and
seas
in the name of love, which is only in dreams and
before sex here in Africa.
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A relationship is like a wheelbarrow, push, it will
move, relax, it will stop!
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