Hey guys,
Are You a Victim of Comparison?
Do you ever feel paralyzed by the fear of not being able to live up to the expectations or accomplishments of those around you? Have you tried to reach a goal but shied away from it because you thought you’d never be able to do it as well as someone else? Do you continually use others as your barometer for success?
Some day before, I went One of my friend's house to know about his result, when I reach his home I found he was very happy, he is jumping, laughing, In short he was totally happy.. So, I thought he was definitely pass the exam.
But, through our conversation I came to know he was failed in three subject of this examination:) So, I asked him "idiot then why you jumping and laughing. He told my friend failed in five subject but I only failed in three subject..))
May be it's not a perfect example of comparison, but we can relate the effect of comparison..))
Let me tell you a practical example, last night in a chat room I found some people, they are very disappointed about steemit, and thinking about quit the steemit,
through our conversation I understand there problem, they are also the victim of comparison.
They try to compare there post to treading posts, they create a post with full effort and hard work but it's not rewarded that much compare to others, and it's disappointed them:)
when i saw there blog I found they just joined steemit, and look at there expectation level:)
Dear newbie steemian friends and followers, please never compare yourself to others, because you're unique, your strength and weakness are different from others, So always try to play with your strength instead of following others, don't forgot comparison always make you weak.....
At last, good luck for your steemit journey:) Keep smiling, because it increases your face value::))
I thought about create a whats app
or telegram
group for newbie steemian, because it will help to grow each other and support each other, so please let me know in comment section, if you think the same way, and if you think it will help you, then I will make the group soon, and inform you for join the group.. thanks:)
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