Life is not always good for a woman when she is far from what she loves most..
It shouldn't surprise you to know that most terrible break-ups and divorces happened not because a woman really caught her lover or husband flirting with another woman. But every woman's heart grows weak and weaker when her man is always too difficult to be on sight. Women always want to touch what they have feeling for.
A man may carry his child once or twice in a day but its diffucult to measure how many times a woman carries the same child in a day. Did you know that a woman can never leave her hospitalized child in the hospital at night and go home to sleep but a man can?
Remember that when you were growing up, it was always your mother who loves to touch your face, use her hand to brush your hair, fix your shirt and hold your back as she walks you to school and anywhere else. Whatever a woman loves, she wants it in her hands and not just talking from a distance.
A man may stand from a distance and give instruction but women usually come closer and sometimes, kneel and hold your hands, look into your eyes and talk to you with deep emotional concern. When you are leaving home the first time maybe to a boarden school, your mother stands and watch with tears as you were taken off by the taxi. She could stand minutes crying wishing there was no school in the world so she could always have you around her.
Distance takes things away from women. Most men have succeeded to live months away from their failies because of the nature of their jobs but such job offer that would take a woman so much apart from her husband and kids has never come to exist. Few women who have succeeded to work far from home always wake up to look at the picture of their husband or kids and cry their hearts out. When a woman is in love, being at a distance is like when a fish is conditioned to live outside the water with a life support machine. It could live but the scent of water is far more important than the life support machine.
It is not everyone stands what you can stand for. We have always argued why a woman would have sex outside her husband just because her husband was not always around? Maybe you should one day be her for one month and measure the weight of her depression. The truth is, we hardly know why women get into relationship. It is not always about the money we have so much accused them of.
Over 80 percent of women get into relationship because of emotional coverage. They know that they were created more emotionally and being in relationship means to have someone who wouldn't leave them emotionally dry. But this thing they hate and try to avoid becomes what most of their men leave them with. There are women who have not seen their husbands for over three months now. And most of these men still have sex with other women somewhere and feel that their wives are made of iron and metal that don't burn.
A woman can manage hardship but it is a more difficult thing for her to manage loneliness and emotional weight.
A lonely woman is never a perfect woman. She is weak and broken. She wants a man.