Majority of people who complain that they are not successful on steemit don't produce original content. There is no way you can truly impact people if you don't produce a content from your heart. You have to birth live changing write ups.

Don't feel like you can't do it, but know that you can. Be yourself, be happy and spread the love. The community is all about caring for each other, so don't worry if you don't see the love yet - it will come knocking on your door pretty soon.

Just write from your heart, and before you know it, people will come knocking on your page.