Relationship doesn't work for me sir, why is it so? That's one of the regular questions i get almost on a daily basis.
You must understand that relationship is like a seed, its growth is determine on the type of soil which is Heart and the determination of the gardener which is Lover as it regularly being said.
There's nothing wrong in being in a Relationship, the only problem is being with the wrong person.
Relationship is like a shoe, if you wear oversize you'll not be comfortable and if you wear the one that's not up to your size you'll still not be comfortable. Until you get your own size comfortability is not in view yet.
Relationship can only be productive not by promises or talks but by actions and commitments.
Most often people starts up a relationship and they don't understand what they are entering, within 3weeks or a month; silence or attitude becomes the issue...
#__WHY_IS_IT_ALWAYS_NOT_WORKING?
- When God is not in view in the relationship
- When you're carried away by love only
- When you're desperate to settle down
- When you fail to ask questions abt the person
- When they're carried away by sexual pleasures, forgetting the real purpose
- When they can not sit down and plan
- When they're always conscious of getting than giving
- When they only communicate at their convenient
- When the lady lies alot and the guy cheats alot.
- When trust is an issue...
✓Get your intentions right, it's one of the fundamentals requirement for a solid and lasting relationship leading to marriage.
Wisdom demands that you don't start what you can't finish.
Don't waste your time if you can't sensed honest intention.
Intention makes a person value your time
Intention makes a person value your body
Intention makes a person value your money
Intention makes a person value commitment
Intention makes a person value your friendship
Intention makes a person value your feelings
Lying and cheating doesn't make a healthy relationship and taking ones love for granted, just because he/she have accepted to date you is a sign immaturity, you need to grow up..!
Stop playing around ( it won't help you)
I'm not talking about gift or romantic affairs o
Am talking about real relationship with intention and commitment, commitment is about giving attention, communication and planning for marriage.
Remember this that Marriage isn't a race...
The secret of a successful marriage is built on the altar of friendship
Relationship is a platform to build friendship for marriage, therefore if the relationship can't make you both best of friends then there's no need to venture into marriage....
